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I found this site and there she was. Someone else had sent her name in. After reading the story I saw that she was writing the same stories and lies to others.

Cary ( USA)


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From the beginning I thought it was a scam thanks to your web site. 

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Juliya Malkova (Riga, Latvia)

This one turned out to be a scammer. Pretty much wouldn't answer any questions and then wrote me about her bank account. Matt.

Letters:

Hi Matt! I was very glad when I has found out your letter in my mail box. It is so nice of you! I was waitong for your letter a lot!!! I at once bring my apologies for my mistakes in my structure and the last letter. I live in the Capital of Latvia city Riga. I was born in Russia in city of Saratov. In the beginning of 90th years during reorganization we with parents have moved to Latvia because my father have transferred on work in this country. After we have moved Soviet Union has broken up also we have remained to live in Latvia. I never was behind borders of Latvia and Russia. As you already could understand, now I am 28 years. My birthday is July, 20, 1975. So as you could understand me I am almost 29 years old. I have a nice hair not so long and not so short. I have dark-green eyes as you can see at my pic. My favorite color is blue. I love this color very much! Matt, I think that you can agree with me because this color is really great and it is suit for me very much!!! Please write me what is your favorite color and why, ok? I was not married. I think first of all I need to know anything about my man, to spend a lot of time with him and only then I think the time will come and I will be able to decide he is for me or not. I hope that you can understand me. Maybe it's not right but I am afraid of making mistakes. I understand that there is no life without mistakes but… Please, try to believe me and to understand me. I would like to know more about your family and to learn a little bit more in detail about your birth and did the origin of your family have historical character? There is in Latvia the people love to praise themselves, but it only on words. Matt, you probably would like to learn more in detail about my character as I want to know more about your character. I can tell about it only according to mine familiar. When I studied at university, my teacher of the English language spoke that I am too open, simple girl, that someone can take advantage of it in the purposes. I can tell precisely by myself that the sociable and purposeful woman. I love to be in a circle of the cheerful, clever friends. In a circle of the people which I communicate with, I have not found the man whom would be possible to connect the destiny with. So I am a the teacher at school, I teach Russian. Age of my pupils of 13-17 years. I work in female collective, where I hear about married life so many that as though itself married. Each day only also I hear how someone complains that the husband has not come home or drunk has come again. It is too hard for me to listen to their groans each day. It is very a pity of my friends and would like to connect the life with the man from another country where, to my opinion, is not present such an attitude to the women. It would be desirable to tell some words about my family. My family consists of four members. It is the mom, daddy I and my sister. I very much love domestic animals, am especial dogs. The daddy works the driver, the mum doesn't work. I have finished the university some years ago. Matt, you know that my student's years were the happiest in my life. And you, Matt, what can you tell me about your student's life? We had cheerful, friendly company which had time simultaneously well to study and to have a rest. My parents were proud of me as that time as present time! They said that we could have fun without spirits, cigarettes and especially without drugs. I very seriously treat these problems. The world to be rolled not clearly where and it is difficult to tell that against it. A lot of families in the world have mentioned this problem and they can only be pitied. It would not be desirable to speak about sad, Matt, probably, do you agree with me? As I already wrote in the beginning of the letter I live in small country town Riga. Though it and small on the sizes, I very much love to visit our museums and theatres. Write to me, Matt, please, about your city. What is your city and do you like to live there? And do you know what Riga is? I speak your language only a little and I own rules of a spelling. But I would like to know what do you think about my knowledge of your language. I want to apologize for mistakes admitted in my letter. I hope that in a near future I shall begin to write more competently. With INTERNET I work also for the first time. Difficultly something to speak about it, you see, Matt, you are the first man whom I communicate with the help of INTERNET. In our country about computers began to speak absolutely recently, but nevertheless Latvian people aspire to learn this clever machine. I write the letter to you not from houses. I write you, from INTERNET CAFE. I can use INTERNET daily; I go in INTERNET CAFE, as soon as I am free off work. I will be with impatience; I will wait forward for your letter. I hope that my photo is pleasant to you. Your new Latvian friend, Juliya.

Hello my dear Matt! I am so happy that I have your answer to every my letter! I think of you every day, all nights, every moment!!! I can't live without your letter, I need your letters every day! Maybe it's too early to talk about it but I am already talking! I really need her letters every day! Please, believe me, my dear Matt! With every letter we know more and more about each other. And I like you more and more! Now you are the important part of my lonely life! I have dream as well as all women. I want to have loving husband that he understood and loved me. I want to have children and I want that he did not overlook about my Birthday. I think, that at all women of dream identical. How are you there? I miss you very much! I am so proud of myself that I have so wonderful man! It is YOU!!! Today I went to one woman. She is 56 years old. She has a daughter who lives now in Germany with your husband. He is from small town in Germany. I don't know how to write it in English. I didn't know that there is a chance to marry someone. You know there are a lot of bride agencies in Latvia. And a lot of Latvian girls attend them. And you know most of them marry foreign men. One girl had correspondence with one man from the USA. The girl was 30 years old and he told that he is 35 years old. He sent her a lot of nice photos. And in some time he decided to come to Latvia to take her to his country. She said 'ok, honey, I will wait for you'. When he came she was in shock! He was not 35 but he was all 60 years old. So he lied to her. I hope that you will not ever lie to me. It's very important thing for me and I know it's important for you. Be honest with me, please. Now I'd better go. I have to go home today early. I miss you very much so, please, write me as soon as possible. Always yours and only yours Kisses, Juliya. P.S: I send you a photo, where I with my mum and sister. I took this photo specially for you that you saw my mum and my sister. Write please to me your home address, a full name and a phone number. I shall try to cause you sometime. My address: 26 Nicgales str,.Riga. , Latvia, LV-1019 my full name Juliya Malkova.

Hello my dear Matt! I am very happy that you write me! It makes me feel that you need me, that you think of me. I am sorry that i didn't answer your letter yesterday. I was busy with home work. I mean with home cleaning. Matt, i know that you have a dream (because every person in the world has his own dream). I don't want to make you tell me about it but if you want go on. Of course i have one dream, maybe when you know about it you will think that it's strange. I don't know, maybe it is but it's my own dream and that's all. I'll tell you about my dream only after you. I want to know your dream first and then i'll tell you mine. I want to be sure that you won't think that i am crazy. Dear Matt, write me your letter or though a little note. I want to know that you need me and that you think of me. It makes my day better! But first of all you should think about your work, then about your family and only then about me. So i think i should better go now for work. By the way, you today have dreamed me. I do not remember what my dream was, but I am precisely sure, that you have dreamed me. I have woken up and tried to recollect what my dream was, but and has not recollected. We today have a lot of rain. What weather at you? Thinking of you, wait to hear from you as you can write me, sincerely, kisses and hugs. Juliya.

Dear Matt! Why you do not answer me??? Tell me that can I be unworthy you or that still. What for you so act? You can simply write to me and all to explain for what reasons you do not wish to communicate with me and I all I shall understand. And you simply have ceased to write to me. And I sit and I am lost in guesses than I have not liked you. Or I can by something has offended you. You can tell about it directly. It is pleasant to me when the people speak each other truth and thus are not afraid to tell that that they think. I think that the bitter truth better than sweet deceit. Tell me I all I shall understand. The silence is the worse form of the reference to the man an attribute of disrespect to me. Please Matt write to me!!! I shall wait for your letter. By respect Juliya.

Hi my dear friend Matt!!!! I am very glad to receive your answer again so soon! It makes me happy!!! I hope that you can understand anything I say. And I hope that I can be frankful with you, Matt, I am very glad, that I have a man whom I can talk frankly to, without lie also of hypocrisy. Our world become more severe, and I think, that you agree with me. I can tell you, Matt, everything that occurs in my life and I think that you will understand me or even something will advise. As you can see at my photo I am not too fat and I am not too slim. My height is 173 cm and my weight is 55 kg. I think that I have a good figure but since my childhood I wanted to be a little more taller. One day of my childhood I wanted to become a photo model and then the day after I decided to become just a model. I know that there are some difference between these profession. But when I grew up I decided that it's not so important for me to become a model or a photo model. I think it's not so constant professions. I can see Latvian girls with can do everything to become a top model but it's not real. I want to have a real work which I like. But it's hard to find it especially in Latvia. I don't know anything about good work in other countries that is why I just can talk about Latvia. I think that you of course would like to know why I am here, I mean in the Internet. OK, I'll tell you but only after you. Of course if you ask me about it then. Matt, in our country the men like to drink very much. I think that I am not the first girl who say it to you. On our country very strong influence is rendered with Russia. And in Russia a problem of alcohol in general very big. This problem has touched many families. Matt, write, that you think in this occasion. I very seriously treat this problem. I love to have fun, to go in clubs, but thus it is not necessary to drink, it is possible simply to have a rest. Maybe that is because our men can't relax without some help of drinks, or drugs or maybe something else… I don't know. You know Latvian people like to celebrate holidays. Latvia is one of not so many countries which have a lot of holidays. Latvian men don't like to work a lot, maybe only somebody. If I am not mistaken we have about 100 holidays each year except Saturday and Sunday. We have a lot of holidays in January, then in February and then in March and in May. And every month we have at least one-two holiday. I think that you can understand me. A little about my hobbies. In my free time I like to carry out on a nature. In years time we frequently with the mum and dad go on our kitchen garden. There we grow different vegetables and berries. It is spoke, that the women in your country do not love to dig in ground. Write me about it more in detail and why they don't like it, please. I like to swim, I like to cook very much and sometimes I like to play billiards. It help me to settle down. I like to read sometimes. My favorite book is "Master and Margaret" by Bulgakov. I hope that you know about this writer and about this book. I read it at least five times. And every time I read it I understand what is the true love! It's so great!!! Bulgakov did really describe this feeling, also about the God and other problem in our world and in our life. If you don't read it please read it for me, of course if you want it. I want to tell about my family. The attitudes in our family for me are ideal. My parents do live together already more than 30 years. Can you imagine that my grandparents had a golden wedding??? They were the best pair in the world and the best grandparents for me especially. I loved then very much!!! My grandfather learn me a lot of useful things and now I can feel their help in my real life. As I already wrote to you, my daddy works the driver, but, despite of it is very gentle with my mom, it constantly speaks it compliments. My daddy works a lot, but thus never speaks about it. The life compels so to work. I want for a long time that my parents have visited to have a rest for city. I can see that they strongly get tired, that of forces they already have not enough, and to leave there is no time the daddy speaks. It tries to do everything all for us. And for this reason, I always speak to my friends, that my parents are an ideal pair. Now, when they are well familiar with my family, they speak that at them unearthly love. In our family it is accepted that when there come the visitors it is necessary to invite all for a table, I mean to offer a cup of tea or coffee with candies or cake. And completely not important they came by the invitation or simply past passed. We consider that the hospitality is an attribute of good family. What you, Matt, think in this occasion. Matt, tell about your target, what do you like to do, to that devote the free time. I like to go in cafe with the friends in free off work time. I love ice-cream and grapes very much. The time goes not appreciably and it is time to me to go for work. I hope to see your letter, Matt, in my email in the near future. Write to me about yourself and family more in detail. Write about your friends. What is your favorite cuisine? What is your favorite book and anything you want me to know about yourself. I wait forward the answer, Your friend from Latvia, Juliya.

Hi my dear friend Matt!!! I was very glad to get your letter so soon. Thank you very much for your letter. It makes my day better!!! I wanted to ask you do you like flowers? And what kind of flowers do you like? I like of course roses. You know that they said the rose is the queen of all flowers. I agree with it. Besides roses I like field flowers such as ox-eye daisy, blue cornflower, little flowers (sorry I don't know names of flowers). But I don't like carnation at all. I think that it's a bad flower and it brings misery. Maybe I am wrong… My grandmother liked this flower very much but she was the happiest woman in the world!!! Do you want to know what I want to get? I want to get 99 or 101 small roses the next day after my wedding. It would be the best present from man I will love! My teacher on English has told me when I studied in the university that her husband gave her the same present on her birthday. Of course she guess about it but she thought that her husband gave her this present a little different way. She thought that it will be only petals of roses laying around the bad. Anyway she was very happy! Look and can you tell me what is the best present you were given? Of course if you want to tell it. And what would be the best present for your birthday? I really want to know that! You know, Matt, I didn't tell you one thing, I am curious! Maybe you are surprised but I want you to know that! I live in Riga. I have some question for you. Please write me back with your answers, ok? 1.Do you lie, maybe sometimes? 2.Do you trust me? 3.Can you understand me in any situation? 4.Have you a girlfriend? 5.Can youafall in love with me? 6.Can you have only one woman for the rest of your life? 7.Please, can you send me your photo with your smile? 8.Are you strong? 9.are you determined? 10.Can you cook? 11.Are you afraid of life problems? 12.Can you share your bed and your house with only one woman? 13.Can you live without alcohol drinks? 14.Do you want a serious relations with me? Ok, I think that is all for now. So, Matt, now you can read my opinion about this question. What I am looking in a man: 1.without lie, 2.with trust, 3.wih understanding, 4.without other girlfriend, 5.with strong passion to me, 6.with sexual interest only to me, 7.with nice smile, 8.strong, 9.determined, 10.who can help me sometimes to cook, 11.who doesn't afraid of problems, 12.who can share with me our bed, our flat or house, 13.i don't like alcohol, 14.i don't care about smoking but I don't like when man drink a lot. Something about me you should know. I don't smoke at all. I tried to smoke as every kid when I was about 15 years old and I don't like it. I like romance. I have a new look of life. I think you can understand me. But I don't understand how a man can love two girls or more at one time. Love is one and it's real love. I don't want to tell you about my last love with one Estonian man because it hurt me a lot and for a long time. I wanted to trust but I couldn't do it. It is unpleasant to me to recollect it. I think that is all for now, Matt. I will wait forward your photos and your answers for my questions. Truly yours, Juliya.

Hello my dear Matt!!!! I miss you very much!!!! I am getting on fine. So what fills your day today? Which of Is it something interesting i should know? Mine is busy. Much work and no time off. I hope everything is fine there and you miss me at least a little!!! I miss you very much! You have no idea how much i miss you! How is your working day passing by? Are you tired? I'd like to go out with you tonight, for example, to visit some pub or a small restaurant to have a chat at dinner. What are your thoughts on this? It would be great! Is it popular to be outdoors in your country? Which places do you attend after you come back from work? My dear Matt!!! i am so happy that you are here with me, i mean you write me letters! I am so proud of myself that i have the best man in the world! My friends and my parents like you a lot! They told me that i am the happiest woman on the Earth because I HAVE YOU!!! What do you think about it? My mother speaks you hello. My parents love you as the son. My sister is jealous me of you slightly. But he wants, that I was happy and hope, that at us all will be good. With every letter of yours I more outline you and your particular world. You draw closer to me, my darling friend, and I obtain the sense of having got acquainted with you for hundreds years. I lack of words to express my feelings well-nigh. I didn't expect to become dependent on you. My mood varies during the day subject to the news I get from you. You just can't imagine how important to me is to get to know all the events happening to you. I so much wish to take part in your life, let it be my shoulder you may cry on if needed. I want you to know there's someone tens kilometers far thinking, remembering and concerning over you. I am not up on what is going with me. Sometimes I can't believe in presence of such a wonderful, splendid, interesting and intelligent man in the world. I wanted to share my feelings with you as well as I want to tell you of other emotions. Hope you take interest in reading my mail that it seems to me became confusing. I skip from one topic to another. I am writing anything I get on my mind. What for I do write the next sentence? I have a desire to confide my secret to you. I look forward to being forgiven. If you are not ok to listen to this, tell me without fail, please, and I'll stop at once for keeps. This secret wish counts my impatience to kiss your lips. I want to hug you, to clasp you to my bosom. Everything I feel can't be expressed in written form. Forgive me, my sweet-heart, for the confusing letter. I am writing it actually panting. Forgive my inexpediency and cowardice. I am not able to hide my feelings longer. I love you!!! You see I told this to you. It seemed to be even easier than I thought. For the first time in my life I experience such a deep feeling. I've said everything I have in my heart and I've stopped thinking over why, what for and how it will be further. I just actually love you... and you know this. I understand, that we did not meet also you may think, that I am mistaken in my feelings. But I am completely sure in my feelings and when we shall meet you will understand it. When we shall meet, we shall find out all our feelings, ideas and we shall have time to decide it is necessary for us to remain together whether or not. If you may and want to help me I shall be very grateful to you that you give me to us chance to find our happiness. I have the account in the Latvian bank which has branch in our city. If you may help, I shall give you number of the account. Now I shall go, because become late. You know all my ideas and feelings. I hope, that I did not disappoint you. Your loved Juliya.


Larisa Chigrinteva (Kopeisk, Chelyabinsk region, Russia)

I am a 44 year old male living in mid west USA. I started receiving e-mails out of nowhere from a young lady in Russia about 5 - 6 weeks ago. She started sending pictures and she is cute, I was thinking that as long as she didn't ask for anything from me it would be no problem. After only a few letters she started talking about "our future" and this started to grow into "I cant stand to be apart" . Then came the "I love you " and I had to check around for a site that might help me to catch her "RED HANDED" you might say. I found this site and found nothing at first about this person but did find several stories that sounded very much the same. So I then wrote her back to tell her that I just couldn't send a lot of money to the other side of the world and hope that I see a return. I told her that if she was for real and really wanted to come here she could get the money from friends and then once she was here I would send them the money back to them. She then went on about me not trusting her and that she would never be able to come here without my help. Knowing for awhile what her plans are I wanted to see what she would say next. She was so sad that we wouldn't be together. I then came back to this sits again to look around some more and there she was. Someone else had sent her name in. After reading the story I saw that she was writing the same stories and lies to others. The part about being an orphan, working with orphans, even the "Sleepless in Seattle" bit was the same. She also had the same story about going to the Consulate in Chelyabinsk Russia. I hope anyone that gets letters from her figures it out quickly and keeps they're money. She is a Con and a liar. Her E-mails ended with.... @yandex.ru according to her she would write from an internet café. I hope this helps someone and that every time that she ask for money, she ends up very disappointed. Cary , USA.

Letters:

Hello my dear Cary!!! I live in the fog now. I love you most of all in this world and I am very happy that I can love again. I am crazy about you and I know that you are too. I miss you and it is very difficult for me to be apart from you. The idea that you are there and I am here makes me feel pain. You are my life now and you know it. I want to look into your deep eyes full of emotions, to touch you, to kiss you. I know that everything will work for us and we will be happy together. I often imagine our wonderful life together. I can feel you even on such big distance we have between each other. But I want to delete this distance. I want to be with you so much and I thought about the ways for us to be together. I wanted to do something for us and our happiness and I went to the Consulate as I wrote to check what I need to come to you. I had talk with the people there and I have known that I need to do some paperwork and get visa to come to you. The visa I can get in easiest way is a tourist visa. I was told that I will be able to get it without any problems. It will take some time and I need to pick up many documents from my side. But I will do everything what depends on me. But I have one problem that upsets me very much. It is not convenient for me to ask you for help but I will not be able to do it without your help. You know, I need to pay for getting visa and doing all paperwork I need to come to you. And you know that my salary is too small for it. I have the great desire to come to you, to see you at last, but I will not be able to do it without your help. I do not want to complain but I do not want to lose you. I love you very much and I will not be able to go through it if I lose you. I do not know whom I can ask for help except you. You know that I am always honest and sincere with you. I hope that you will understand me and will help me to do this step. When I was in the Consulate I gave them some documents and they made a file for me. Now I need to pay them and they will begin my visa process. They gave me quotations for paperwork I need to do. So it will be 100$US for the visa and 30$ for registration. I also need to pay 80$ for foreign passport, 45$ for medical exam and 40 for interview and for some other expenses I can have. In general I will need about 300$US to cover all expenses. You know that I do not have such money and I can hope only on your help. Also I have known that there is Western Union office in our city and you can send the money using this bank system to my name. I was told that it is the quickest and safest way of sending money. My full name is LARISA CHIGRINTSEVA. You also need to know my address. My home address is Russia, Kopeisk, Gagarina Street, 12. I have written about it. My zip code is 456000. After you send the money you will need to send me your full name, exact home address, amount of money and Money Transfer Control Number (MTCN). I was told about it in the bank. I will not be able to get the money without it. Honey, I need to pay them during the week, so, please, try to send it as soon as possible. I really hope that you will understand my situation. I want to see you very much but I will not be able to do it without your help just because I don't have such money. I will understand if you do not want to help me but it will make me feel terrible pain that I will not be able to be with you. Sorry, dear, if it upsets you. I just think that we need to trust each other, to be honest and to share everything. I hope you are agreeing with me. I imagine that we can meet soon and I have tears of happiness on my eyes. I do not want that there were problems that can prevent us. But I can hope only on your help, dear. It will be the happiest moment of my life when I meet you, hold you. I love you so much. You are the best what I have in my life. I want to be with you more than anything. I miss you, dear and wait for your reply with big impatience. Your Larisa.


Larisa Chigrinteva2 (Kopeisk, Chelyabinsk region, Russia)

I am so glad that someone wrote earlier about Larisa Chigrintseva from Kopeisk, Russia. I am a divorced male, age 30 who has been looking to find someone real. I tried various dating websites. One of the websites was www.flirtbox.com, which is free and is not monitored very well. I got a message from Larisa to my account that I had on Flirtbox. Her profile is still there, however, it is listed as someone from Acmar, Alabama. I asked about why she chose this city and state. Her reply was that she just punched in a zip code and found this city. Here is the site of her profile: http://www.flirtbox.us/lariona. Several e-mails later, I began to get suspicious. Some of my important questions were not being answered. I did not know if it was a language barrier issue, or if I was being scammed. I have searched for the last three weeks on her name, but nothing came up until today. I hope that others get this information off this site. I was ready to travel to Chelyabinsk to meet her. Thanks, Mitch, Michiganm, USA. Here are the last three e-mails she sent me:

Letters:

Date: Wed, 28 Jul 2004 18:52:18 +0400 
Hello dear Mitch!!! You know that it does not bother me at all. How are you? As for me I am rather fine. I did not do anything special these days. The weather is very hot here and there is no mood to do anything. Only your letters help me. You know that I am very happy to read your words. I begin to miss you when I cannot do it. You know that you have become important part of my life. I think about you so often and even sometimes I cannot think about anything else. I wait for every moment when I can talk to you. I understand that there is half of the world between us and I feel a little bit sad about it. But I suppose that any barrier can be broken and everything can happen in this world. I am sure that everything must be all right between us. I have the feeling that I know you for a long time already and my feelings become stronger with every day. I am really afraid to lose you and I hope that it will never happen. Mariya and Yuliya are fine too. They had the day off from work today and they went to the cinema. I would like to go with them but I had to go to work. But I am happy that after my work I can go to the Internet cafe where I can write you and I am much happier to spend my time with you even it is not reality and just Internet. You know that I dream a lot about you. I dream that you are near me and I can feel your warm and care. I would like to share every happy and sad moment with you and that you always would be able to help me. I hope that my dreams will come true one day. I really want that we would be together. I want to touch you, to hold you, to enjoy the time we spend together, to watch movies, to cook together, to listen to music, to go to the nature, to go for a walk and to do a lot of other things that man and woman can do! But I think I will better stop here, because I don't want you to think that I am weird. I am really crazy about you and I am so excited that I have met you. There is no minute when I don't think about you. I will come to home today and I will feel alone again. I think that it would be great if you were near me. You would be able to make me forget about this loneliness. All right, I will better stop here. I am sending you the photo, which was taken, near the lake. You know that we have a lot of wonderful lakes here. I will go but I will wait for your letters. I will miss you and will wait for the moment when I will be able to read your words again. Yours Larisa.

Date: Fri, 30 Jul 2004 15:55:09 +0400
Hello my dear Mitch!!! Again I am here in the Internet cafe. You know, it is the best moment of my day when I can read your words and write to you. And I am very sad when I cannot do it because of some reasons. When I wrote you for the first time I did not know that it will work and that I will have such feelings to you. But now I know that you are the man whom I want to have near me. In spite of the fact that I have not met you in real life and I have only your letters I can say that I want to share my life with you. I want to be always with you, to feel your warmth and care. Maybe it seems strange for you to hear such words from me. But I have the feeling that we know each other for ages. I have never had such feelings to nobody. Hope you are not scared with all these words and you understand me. I hope that you can feel it too. I know that my feelings are real. You know that I do not like to play with the feelings of other people and do not like when somebody plays with mine. I hope you will never do it. I always want to be honest with you and hope you will be honest too because I think that honesty have very big meaning between to people. Without love, honesty, respect and understanding there cannot be relationships between woman and man. I wanted to find the man with whom I would be able to share all these. Now I hope that I have already found such man. I think I will be able to come to you if everything will be fine between us. By the way my last name is Chigrintseva. By the way I saw you in my dream yesterday night and I woke up with the smile on my face. I will tell you about it, ok. We have weekend after busy week. We have decided to go for picnic. We have invited all our friends with their families. We make kebabs or barbecue. We have a lot of fun together and tell a lot of interesting stories. In the evening we have remained alone and all time is ours. Night, moon's light shines our faces. We have romantic dinner with candles. We are alone and nobody can prevent us. Then we turn on the music and begin to dance slowly. I look into your eyes full of emotions and you look into mine. We enjoy every second and try to catch eye of each other. I see your lips, so soft and I want to kiss them. We love each other and the minute is an eternity. Tomorrow one more week will begin and it will be even better… I woke up with good mood in the morning and went to the work. I hope you are not bored with it. I hope it will come true one day. You know that I have nothing special here. I have my friends and children on my work. But now I have you and I am happy that the God helped us to meet each other. I will go now but I am waiting impatiently for your reply. Hot kisses and hugs to you. Your Larisa.

Date: Mon, 2 Aug 2004 14:15:48 +0400
My darling Mitch!!! I am really exited to read your words. You know that I miss you always when I cannot read your letters. My life was so usual before. You know I looked for the one man who would make me feel happy every second of my life. Now I have found such man. Now I have very close person who always can understand me and make me feel happy. He is you. I even do not know what I will do without you. By the way there is Mariya near me in the Internet cafe. You know she is my girlfriend I wrote you about. She would like to tell you some words if you do not mind. I will try to translate it to English. "Hello Mitch!!! I am Mariya, Larisa's girlfriend. I am honored to know you. I see how Larisa likes you. These past days she looks so happy. I am really glad that there is man in this world who can make her feel happy even if he lives so far away. I hope you will never make her feel pain. She is like the flower that need care and love. I am really happy for you and Larisa and wish you only happiness. All right I will let Larisa to talk to you and leave you together. Good bye" It is me Larisa again. Sorry dear if something wrong. Mariya really wanted to talk to you. Hope you do not feel uncomfortable. If seriously I feel a little uncomfortable. She has gone from the cafe already. She went to work for evening. I watched one film yesterday. I do not know exactly how it is called in English. Perhaps "Sleepless in Seattle". It is about one man who said the story about his life on the radio. One woman had heard this story and she is failed in love with this man even she did not see him and did not know him well. She went to meet him and when she met him she understood that he was the one whom she looked for. I believe that you my second half and the destiny has helped us to meet. I think it is our chance to be happy until the end of times and we cannot miss it. I understand that we do not know each other for a long time and we have not met yet, but I have the feeling that I know you all my life and I have already written about it. I think you have this feeling too. I know what I feel inside and what my heart tells me. You know that it is the first time when I met somebody through the Internet. I would never believe that I can have such feelings to the man I have never met in the real life. But now I know that everything can happen. I have experienced it. I met you and everything changed in my life. I am happy now and I do not need anything else. You are the closest person for me now. I trust you dear and I know that you will never make me feel pain. I know that you trust me. I did not give you any reasons for not trusting me. I hope you will always trust me and care about me. I have only serious intentions about you. Just write me that you trust me and that you do not think that I am weird. You know that I am very sensitive and sensual person. You mean everything to me now. You are my life now. I think that you even can feel it on such big distance from me. I cannot imagine my life without you. I know that my life will be empty without you and I do not want to lose you. Please be sincere with me and write that you trust me and that you will never hurt me. I will let you go now but I will wait for your letters. I am sending you the photo which was taken this winter. I will think about you and you will feel my thoughts. You are in my heart. Forever your Larisa.


Lena Lenusik AKA Elena Andrianova (Zvenigovo, Russia)

I am a 29year old, divorced male single father of one. I posted a profile on Matchdoctor.com and this girl Lena Lenusik sent me an Email. In under a week she was madly in love with me and just had to come to the states to see me. From the beginning I thought it was a scam thanks to your web site but I wanted to make sure. Well sure enough in 8 days she was asking me for 350 dollars to get her visa made. She wanted me to send the money Western Union to Elena Andrianova at 120 Krasnoarmeiskay street , apartment 9 in Zvenigovo. Of course I did not send the money and I reported this to matchdoctor.com but because she does not correspond thru their website after initial contact they would not do anything about it. Story by Paul.

Letters:

First Letter.......
Hi Pauly!!!!!!!!!!! I was pleasantly surprised, when has found your answer in mine e-mail. I did not think, when I have written to you, that I will receive the answer from you. So it is interesting to get acquainted with the foreign man. I send to you the photos. Please inform, that you think of them. Now you see as I look. And I would want very much to see your photo. I want to tell to you slightly about myself and life. My age is 25 years. My height is 5'5 and my weight is 121 lbs. I was born in Russia, in city Zvenigovo. It is the large and very beautiful city. It is in the European part of Russia, approximately 850 kilometers from Moscow. Did you visit Russia? Do you love to travel? What countries do you visited? I never traveled from Russia, but I went in many cities in Russia. Do you have the Russian friends? I work, as nurse in children's hospital. I like very much this work, because I love children and to work with them. I have finished medical college and was arranged to work in children's hospital. I work in various changes. Sometimes I work at day, sometimes at night. I am interested to find the man for the life. I am the lonely woman, but I do not want to be one. I never was married and I still have no children. I have serious intentions to find the love. I have tried to write to you, and you have answered to me. I think, that we can begin to find out each other better, Pauly. I am sensitive, kind, cheerful and sociable person. I love a nature, and sometimes I with the friends leave on barbecue, when I have free time. What do you love to do in free time? I love to swim and to play in tennis, though in tennis I play not so well. What sports competitions you love? Though there is a lot of my time the work occupies, I love to enjoy life. I do not like lie and treachery. I do not love any kind of cruelty. In free time I as love to listen to music. I listen to various music. Sometimes I listen to fate, and sometimes and classical music. What music you love to listen? Do you understand my English language? When I studied in medical college, there I studied the English language. I hope, that I make not many mistakes. I will try to write so, that you would understand me. I want to know all about you and your life and we can reach familiarity. You can ask me any questions. I hope to see your letter soon ... Lena from Russia.

Last Letter........
Hello my love Pauly!!!!!!!!!!! I think of you today... I really dream what to meet you... I think of it each day... I already wrote to you, that you in my heart.. You have mentioned my soul... I am glad, that you want to help me. It is expensive trip. First of all I should issue the visa.. The Aunt to me will make it, but I should pay it. These are 350 American dollars. Now I need in this sum. Near to internet-cafe there is office Western Union. I have learned about transfer of money. It is the fastest way. It is necessary for you to know my data. Russia, city Zvenigovo, Krasnoarmeiskay street 120, an apartment 9. Name Elena, Surname Andrianova. That I would receive money to me it is necessary to know yours data and MTCN (control number). Your offer shocked me a little. I searched for love and I think, that have found it, but I hesitate a little to send such photos. I trust you and I know, that you will show nobody them. I very much want to arrive to you and when I shall come you will see me completely. But I hesitate to send such photos through internet. Suddenly them someone see it. I wait for your letter.... With Love. Elena


Lenulya (Elena Vinogradova mailing address)б (Novosibirsk, Russia)

Single, never married, age 33, not a father. Currently involved in church related missions project in Brazil, and wound up using Yahoo web based mail. Yahoo also offers a free of charge public profile in their personals section, so I figured "why not?" Put a brief profile on the yahoo personals. Contact came through their system a few days after the addition, which requires a paid membership in order to send e-mail to someone who has posted a profile. Immediate suspicion due to standard financial condition of many in Russia. Tone of initial message made me think "Nigeria Scam". Decided to play along just to see where it went, and perhaps a bit of fantasy thinking that this person could be real. There was a suggestion leading up to a trip to Russia. I responded about how I needed to save up some money after the current trip to Brazil is over, and besides since we had only been in contact two weeks it was rather difficult to determine if she was the correct woman for me or not. Second, more direct request received for help with visa papers. Stated that in the past Western Union requires a $90 handling fee. Suggested that it might be more useful to find some other way. Suggested that we missionaries transfer money through the banks just fine, and wondered why it would be so difficult to not just use an American bank to transfer the money? (I didn't say this, but after all, the US$ used to pay the Yahoo $19.95 monthly fee for personal profile responses has to be coming from somewhere, right?) Ongoing contact with her. Key Characteristics:

  1. Talks at great length about importance of her mum. Her mum was never in any of the photos that she sent. Neither was any other family member. In fact, neither was any other person. When I visited Russia with a different missions agency, and spent some time in Russian family homes, the family photos were always examined. Family photos are so important in Russia that we were advised to take some with us to show to people that we met. Yet this woman none?

  2. Photographs are sent with the messages in chronological order. "Foto1.jpg" was sent first. "Foto2.jpg" etc followed. Who on earth keeps that good an order of their digital photographs? The photos are most likely being assembled by someone following a "Step by Step Guide to selling a Russian Beauty on the Internet" or some such.

  3. Responding to Yahoo Personals profiles requires a US$19.95 month membership fee. How can anyone be a desperately poor love-struck Russian woman and afford that?

  4. All photographs appear to be posed to some extent or the other. The one that finally pushed me over the edge and made me seek out a scam page was the one in a swimsuit. What woman naturally hold her hands like that? She is also looking at a point below the camera, and possibly a little to the side. This is not a snapshot. This is a posed photograph taken under the direction of someone standing out of view of the camera, and she appears to be looking at this person who is guiding her position.

  5. Fast move, over two week period, into wanting to have money sent so she can be my wife, despite a message sent saying that we should wait and get to know eachother better, and despite the fact that I have said that I need time to financially recover from the current trip to Brazil.

Letters:

First Message, as received in the Yahoo Personals inbox: (this is different than the yahoo mail box for e-mail)
Date: 08/02/2004

Hello my new friend!!! I have decided to write to you this letter. I to find your structure on www.yahoopersonals.com. Whether I am not sure you want with me to speak, but I very much would like to get acquainted with you closer. I have decided to write to you because you to me most the other have liked. I would search such for the man who might understand and love me. I want to find mine the satellite in life for whom I might expect at the most difficult moments. I want to get acquainted with you closer. I to search such for the man with whom I my future life might connect. I the first time get acquainted thus and very much I want that you have written to me on mine E-mail: lenulya2004@inbox.ru . I very much want that you could answer my letter to you. If you want with me to get acquainted that write to me soon. I very much wait for your answer. Write To me only on this E-mail address: lenulya2004@inbox.ru. Write to me and I shall send to you my photo and I shall tell about myself more. Elena.

Thu, 5 Aug 2004 14:32:39 +0400
Good afternoon, my new friend, Glen . Me call Elena, and name Lenulya this diminutively caressing name from my name. You may name as you it is pleasant more.I only recently have mastered the computer and almost I am not able to use him if at me was not present a number of the textbook. It is my first experience as with work on the computer, and acquaintance through a E-Mail. I to hear much, that people get acquainted through the Internet and I to want to try.I am happy that you have answered me my letter for you. Whether I was not sure you me will write back whether or not. But when I have seen your letter for me I was happy. I am very glad that at me it has turned out. This important event in my life. I to hope, that we shall write each other. I to want to tell it is a little about myself. Well? You agree? I to live to Novosibirsk. It is the Siberian federal district. This city is well-known for that that it cold and here many any deposits, but stocks remained all on some 450 years. To be exact at us to extract petroleum and gas.I was born in 1974 and now to me of 29 years. But Day of my Birth on August, 29. My growth of 168 centimeters, and weight of 57 kg. My family consists from mum and the sister who is more younger than me. I very much love them. I always to listen to opinion mum because she many to test and learn. My mum always to help me morally and physically when I to require. My sister still small, she to be born very much late and with its birth at mine mum to be problems. But all is safe. Mine the sister now to go to school. I to finish Pedagogical institute where studied at faculty of preschool education. Now I to teach children from the first on the third class. In my class which I to learn to be 20 children. All children about 6-8 years age. I very much to love children, and you? I to work in group of the prolonged day. It means that after lessons children of 1-3 classes to not leave home and to remain at school to be engaged and play with me. They to play, prepare for the domestic task to read to draw and so on. Sometimes we to go to theatre, in a museum, at cinema. I very much to love the work, it is very interesting. And you to love the work? Where you to work? To tell to me. I to be sorry, I likely to tire you the story. I to continue later, in the following letter. Up to a meeting.I shall look forward to hearing from you with impatience. Elena. P. S. I to be sorry for my English language I not so it is good to know it, but I study and to hope you to me to help in it. Ok?

Thu, 12 Aug 2004 14:23:36 +0400
Hello my love, Glen! I am very glad to receive from you the letter. What weather at you there? You to know, I very much to get used to you with each yours the new letter! I so am glad, that we to find each other. Due to you at me send affairs,i became happy, about it to notice all: at work to me to speak, that at me to appear it is more than forces, at home too there was all Well. My mum to transfer you greetings! She All time to ask as us with you affairs. I to speak, that all is good. I always to think of you. Each time before dream I to thank the god that it Has given me you. I on religion orthodox christian and I to trust in the god. You to trust in the god? I think directly the happiest woman on light. Know why? As I have studied the God, I have studied Jesus Christ, I have studied Sacred Spirit, Which in me. When Jesus Christ has given life on a cross, Blood for our sins, we have received a huge opportunity, huge happiness - is simple So, for something, just the God of us likes, - to receive life, eternal life. Jesus Christ - a source of my life. I am constant to go to church and to pray to the god that with me and with my relatives all it was good. To ask I the god about you and about yours health. I admire with Jesus as it gives me force. It gives us hope and gives a pardon. On a degree almost two thousand years imperfect term of people Inspiration from a unique source of the perfect life of all cases. Today we as never demand hearing Jesus's sermon On boundless love and the world. He is my Savior and the biggest hope concerning all world. If we followed his doctrine even on 20, the world would be much better. I am correct to speak about it? I to know, that you also so to think. I of nothing can do with myself. I is constant to think of you. I to speak my mum, that you the good person and, that you can trust. Mum all Is equal to speak, that I to be cautious in a choice and not To be mistaken. She to speak, that we should learn about the friend The friend is closer. You to understand, that she to wish goods and Happiness? My mum very wise person, she to know, that speaks. I with impatience to wait for your letter, Because with each letter we become closer to Each other, you with me agree? I to want, that so To be always! I to worry because of that that slightly i was not so good to know English and work with the computer. To me all time to have To ask the girlfriend as it to do. But all Equally I am very glad. I to look forward to hearing from you and to give you a kiss of love! Your love! Good-bye. For ever your Elena. P.S. I to send you a photo " Voskresenskaya church " in our city which I frequently to go.

Thu, 19 Aug 2004 14:29:42 +0400
Most Recent Message (there have been about 12-15 back and forth):

Hello my love, Glen!!! I so am glad that you to write to me and that I to find so much letters on my box. I am happy and to thank our God that he to help us and and to meet you in my life. I am happy that I can to speak it to you. I shall be the happiest girl when we can meet in the future. You a beam of light in my heart. You mine supermen and I of you so to Like!!! I have understood that you are necessary for me as air and that I want To be with you beside. While I to be sick I frequently to think of you. I represented as you enter into my room and I feel your aroma.You cautiously put me on a sofa to unbutton to me a dress and your soft hands begin to caress my breast softly. And our bodies merge in the whole and you compress me so urgently, that we hear as our hearts begin to beat in one rhythm. Then we begin to be borrowed love. About as I to want that this dream was carried out! But I test some difficulties with money to the visa. I very much to want to be with you, but I to not know what to do. I to learn that it is necessary for me to make that I could arrive to you and always to be near to you in your embrace.I would like to arrive to you under the visa of bride K-1, but it is very difficult for receiving. To receive visa K-1 it is necessary to make out very many documents and on its registration a lot of time, almost a floor of year is necessary. I to not want to wait so long. Therefore I to want to arrive to you under the visa of tourist B-2. The visa of category B-2 is given out to tourists, people leaving in USA for rest, visitings of friends or relatives. For reception of visa B-2 it is necessary for me to fill in the questionnaire - application on reception of the not immigration visa, form OF-156. Term of stay under visa B-2 is determined in limits from 3 about 6 months. If necessary it, it is possible to prolong a maximum till one year. Legally being on territory of USA, I having the not immigration visa can request in further sanctions of Service of immigration and naturalization on: Change of the status with not immigration on immigration and to receive the visa of bride K-1. Having received the visa of bride K-1 we can get married and I for ever can remain near to you. I would like to leave for you in marriage and to begin your wife. We would have fine loving family and we would be very happy together. You to want that I became your wife? On registration of the visa, all information, documents it is necessary for me about 350 US dollars. But I to not have such big sum of money as at me not the big wages and I was not capable will pay the visa. I very much ask you that you have helped me to pay cost of the visa and registration of all necessary documents that I could receive the visa and arrive to you. Your help is very necessary for me. I am very strong to love you and can not live without you any more and one day. I think that you to want that I could arrive to you more soon and we could meet. I learnthat you may to send money through the Western Union and I can receive money to the visa. I to write to you the address of bank of the Western Union where you should send money: GAZPROMBANK. 1905 GODA, 18. NOVOSIBIRSK , 630132. Vinogradova Elena. Then you to send me money please inform me of ten figures hich should give you on the Western Union (MTCN).Also inform me the data: your post address and your full name. All this to me to tell in bank, but I might forget something, therefore ask the employee of bank that else you should inform me that I to receive your money. Please write to me the name of the international airport closest to you where I should fly.If you to send, I to fly in Moscow and to go in embassy to begin to make out the visa. I to remain there at my cousines. She is always glad to me. Lovely mine, I so miss on you and very much I wait when we shall be together.I with huge impatience shall wait for your letter. For ever loving you Elena.


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