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I want to thank you for all of your support to me. It is appreciated more than you can know. While I am not ready yet to look for a wife, quite yet, I have been surfing the web for marriage agencies and personals. Looking for any of the scammers that I find in their listings. When I find one, I inform the agency that they have a scammer listed in their ads. I also refer them to your web site. Some send me a thank you email, and one actually sent me a warning to, "Mind my own business". Along with a notice of legal action if I persist in notifying them about the scammers on their site.

Sincerely, Harold Kraus



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Eleonora Belova (Kiev, Ukraine)

This a follow-up to my letter regarding scam artist Eleonora Belova hat appears on page 18 of the blacklist. For those who have looked at the photos of her I sent, most would have to agree she is nothing short of a Goddess, even if her mother was hit by a car and near death and she needed money immediately.Can you image my surprise when, on my first day in Kiev in August, I saw the follow photo on billboards all over Kiev?

O.A. Kibenko


Eugenia Mikhailova (Sevastopol, Ukraine)

I want to thank you for your article that you had posted about one of the scammers using the model, Leatitia Casta, pictures. After reading your article I did a search at www.lycos.com on her name and found one of the very pictures  that this girl had sent me. This very night I was getting ready to send her $750 through western union. She had figured out that she could come to stay with me here in Florida, if I sent her $1590, but I told her that I would take care of the plane ticket after she handled the legal problems on her side, with the $750 I would  send her. This web site saved me a lot of money today. After all the letters that  we had going back and forth to each other, I would have gladly spent that money, if it was all true. We were talking marriage and starting a family and the whole  works. This is the lowest kind of scam artist that I have ever been involved in. For all I know, I was sending my letters to some guy who is making a fortune off of us rich Americans. Tonight I was going to send her a nasty letter back about finding  out that she seems to work for Victoria's Secret and is already here in the US, but instead I sent her a letter and told her I changed my mind and want to get a round trip ticket so I can come over and meet her parents. I explained to her that I have enough vacation time saved up so that I can come over there and wait for her, while the legal issues are cleared up, and then we can fly back to the US together. Since I am curious about the response that I will now be receiving from this letter, I am not going to post her address at this time. I will post the name  that she told me, which is, Eugenia Mikhailova. Here is how she worked the letters she sent me. 

Letter 1 

Hi my friend! 

I have received your letter from marriage agency " One and Only ".Thank you very much. I also want to know more about you because you've interested me. My name is Eugenia Mikhailova. My ad # is 1654530. I live on Ukraine in sity Sevastopol. I was born on November 4, my sign of zodiac is a Scorpio. I am a nurse and I work in a hospital. My height is 5'7". My weight is 126 lbs. I have chestnut hair and green eyes. I have never been married and I have not got  children. I am honest, intelligent, appreciative, optimistic, sincere, outgoing, adventurous, healthy, romantic, affectionate and attractive woman. I like to cook and to meet visitors. I like domestic animals, music, flowers, and dinners with  candles. I like sport and I play tennis. I would like to create family with serious gentleman who is well-educated, intelligent, sports, reliable, financially stable, generous and interested in marriage and creating a family. I shall love and to respect him. He will be always sole for me. 

Letter 2 

Hello Neil, 

I have received your letter . I like you. I was very much touched by your revelation. I am very much touched by your attention and your choice that you  have chosen me, but I would like to know about you more! You tell me about your family. I've placed my ad in Internet in order to fulfill my dream. The dream of all my life is to create a family, a happy, friendly family with beloved man. To give birth to healthy, clever and beautiful children. And, of course, this decision must be made by both of us. I dream to meet a man who were my friend, my kind careful, romantic, energetic, gay and reliable friend.I wish he were in good shapes, healthy, intelligent. I think, I could be a faithful and devoted friend for him, reliable and understanding partner in his work, careful, lender and loving wife. What do you think about it? But Neil you perfectly understand that if you want with me to correspond that it will be costs (stands) to me of the large money expenses the Internet is very expensive for me. System Internet on Ukraine still young, therefore services Internet expensive. Not each man can afford such luxury to use Internet. Your money very much will help me with payment Internet. If you are ready to pay our correspondence than I agree with you to correspond. For example to receive and to send to you the letter there is to me $ 4 and if from a photo that it costs twice more dearly (more expensively). I work a nurse in urban state hospital. My work very much low pay because in our country medicine is free. I shall not ask how many particularly of money to me I am necessary I think if you will be very much interested in our correspondence you to send me money to yours discretion on Western Union on my name Mikhailova Eugenia 

Letter 3 

Hi my new friend! 

I have received your letter from marriage agency.Thank you very much. I also want to know more about you because you've interested me. My name is Eugenia Mikhailova. I am 32. I was born on November 4, my sign of zodiac is a Scorpio. I am a nurse and I work in a hospital. My height is 5' 7". My weight is 126 lbs. I have light chestnut hair and green eyes. I have never been married and I have not got children. I am honest, intelligent, appreciative, sincere, outgoing, healthy, romantic, affectionate and attractive woman. I like to cook and to meet visitors. I like domestic animals, music, flowers, and dinners with candles. I am an adventurous, stimulating, optimistic, passionate and influential person. And I have been described as an "Enigma" by some. I keep active by swimming, playing tennis and I also like to travel. I would like to create family with serious gentleman who is well-educated, intelligent, sports, reliable, financially stable, generous and interested in marriage and creating a family. I look for "C.A.S.S.E.T". qualities in a man, which is: C: Compassionate A: Adventurous S: Spontaneous S: Sincere E: Etiquette (good) T: Travelled (well) I shall love and to respect him. He will be always sole for me. Above all you must wish and LOVE to laugh, so no supercilious men please! I live in Ukraine (near Russia ) 

Letter 4 

Hi Neil

I was glad to receive your letter. But now is unexpected in our family there was some problem. My aunt is sick hardly and to be in a bad status now. She has infringement a brain blood the reference (manipulation). She is 71 years. She has no the close relatives which could look after and treat her at home. She already  has left hospital and consequently she requires a leaving (care) and treatment at home. I take holiday till August 29. Tomorrow I will go to her. She lives in city Paltava. It is on Ukraine but far from Sevastopol. She has not a computer therefore I can not to you write till August 29. You always are on mine opinion and I shall think of you. Do not worry as soon as I will return at home I at once I shall write to you the letter. 

Sincerely Eugenia 

Letter 5 

Hello Neil , 

Today I have returned from my trip from my aunt. She became better and already beginnings well to recover. I have made a course of treatment to her at home. I did(made) to her injections and inside a vein of injection of a medicine. I hope I has helped her very well. I was very much touched by your revelation. I am very much touched by your attention and your choice that you have chosen me, but I would like to know about you more! You tell me about your family. I've placed my ad in Internet in order to fulfill my dream. The dream of all my life is to create a family, a happy, friendly family with beloved man. To give birth to healthy, clever  and beautiful children. And, of course, this decision must be made by both of us. I dream to meet a man who were my friend, my kind careful, romantic, energetic, gay and reliable friend.I wish he were in good shapes, healthy, intelligent. I think, I could be a faithful and devoted friend for him, reliable and understanding partner in his work, careful, lender and loving wife. What do you think about it? But Neil you perfectly understand that if you want with me to correspond that it will be costs (stands) to me of the large money expenses the Internet is very expensive for me. System Internet on Ukraine still young, therefore services Internet expensive. Not each man can afford such luxury to use Internet. Your money very much will help me with payment Internet. If you are ready to pay our correspondence than I agree with you to correspond. For example to receive and to send to you the letter there is to me $ 4 and if from a photo that it costs twice more dearly (more expensively). I work a nurse in urban state hospital. My work very much low pay because in our country medicine is free. I shall not ask how many particularly of money to me I am necessary I think if you will be very much interested in our correspondence you to send me money to yours discretion on Western Union on my name Mikhailova Eugenia  

Letter 6 

Hi Neil 

I have received your letter. Thanks. I agree to arrive to you in America. And if we shall like each other we shall marry and to live happy family. What do you think about it? 

Sincerely Eugenia 

Letter 7 

Hi dear Neil

 I was glad to receive your letter. Thanks. My photo in a green dressing gown my last photo. I can arrive to you only from the airport in Kiev or Moscow. Our correspondence becomes more and more substantial. With each letter all of us learn(find out) each other more. I want to tell you once again that to a marriage I treat very seriously and that this event should occur once in life of Any divorces I do not want. So my parents have brought up. They live in a marriage 37 years. And I did not meet in happier pair than my parents. My senior sister in marriage and she has happy family. She lives in Russia in St. Peterburg. She with the husband are engaged business. I think if we shall like each other that we shall  have happy family and beautiful, healthy children. I agree to arrive to you to  America. I aspire very much to you. I want to see you soon and probably to remain with you in America for ever if we shall like each other. I never was abroad therefore of foreign passport I have not. The registration of the foreign passport costs $ 225 and it will be registration two months, but it is possible the passport  to make for two weeks. Then for promptness of registration of the passport it is necessary to pay in addition $ 100. Up to disorder of the Soviet Union our country was the closed very state. It was possible in our country to go to not go away. Now there have come absolutely other times. It is possible to travel where will want. If you have money. I shall make out the business - visa. It can be made quickly and simply. It costs $ 450. The tickets on plan costs $ 820. Total it will  cost $ 1595. As soon as I shall receive money I at once I shall begin to make out all documents. The registration of the documents will borrow approximately three weeks. Money can send on Western Union on my name Mikhailova Eugenia,  When you will send money then you write to me on computer a code of a remittance from 10 figures, complete name and your address, state. What do you  think about it? 

Letter 8 

Hi dear Neil

I was glad to receive your letter. Thanks. I am very happy that already less than one month we can be together. Certainly you can send  me $ 775 US for veneering the documents. To me have said what is it will borrow approximately three weeks and after my passport and visa will are ready you can to buy to me the ticket and you will meet me in the airport. I very much wait for ours an occurring. I want to be with you.  

Sincerely Eugenia  


Galina Kislitsina (Magnitogorsk, Russia) 

I had received a letter from a person named Galina Kislitsina who wrote to me,  from a personal ad that i had placed at LoveCity.com. You will be able to see how quickly she became "IN LOVE" with me & could not live without me! I am a sceptic by nature, and so I wrote her to see what she would do next. She went from being not so well off, a virgin...at 27yrs of age...yea right, to sending me a picture half dressed. She said she did not know how to use the computer very well, but somehow sent an MP3 of her voice??? I might add she called once at 5:30 in the morning! Here are her pic's, so any guys out there BEWARE!!! I was lucky & caught on before I was sucked in! 

P.S.-attachments being sent. 

Thanks, KB 

Letter 1

Hi! It is very pleasant that you have answered my letter. Recently I was in the Internet and casually has gone to Lovesity.com. I has decided to try to write you because I liked your profile. I want to know about you more. Summer in Russia now. The birds are singing, sun becomes higher on the sky. My mood rises because I like summer. I have got used to live cheerfully because if I there will be crying I shall be sad and will not be smiles on my face. It's bad because to smile it is necessary always. I want to find my unique man which will be with me all my life. I'm afraid to choose incorrectly. I write you also because I know that american males very kind, cheerful, honour. And they do good things for the females. I very much want to know English language in perfection. I know English language already but not excellent. I visit English lessons now for increase of a level of my English. In my opinion, I do headway (successes). Smile... Please say to me about it. OK? It's important for me. I'm very seriously think about it. Our correspondence is not joke for me. It's serious. Please say to me what is it for you? I live in Magnitogorsk town with my mum. For a long time we haven't a complete family. My father has left from our family very much long ago and I do not remember him absolutely. He lives in the other city and never comes to us. Probably, I do not want, that he has arrived, because he so much years did not come to us. I think, that he is not very good man. I have told to my mum, that I have written the letter to American man (to you) and he has answered to my  letter. She was surprised and has said that not strongly trusts. I do not know, whether we shall meet sometime or not. I think that all the same we shall understand each other. Very well that you want to learn me better because I want to learn you too. I shall help you to learn me better. I never was married and I do not have children. I've birthday on September 15 1974. How you see, I'm 27 years old and I want to find the worthy man for me. I still badly understand how the computer works but I try to learn it. It is very interesting. I work now as the accountant in small firm. We have business in manufacturing (fabrication) of metal doors for apartments (flats) and entrances. In correspondence with you, sometimes I shall write with the help of a translation program. But I think, that it will be not often. Basically I will write without it help. I has finished financial  university and pedagogical institute. I think that we shall understand each other and then we can see each other. I very much like to prepare meal. My liked dish is meat made on the French recipe and the russian pel'meni. I would be very pleased if you tried my dishes and my kitchen. Smile... I have very many recipes for preparation of food. I very much like flowers. My favorite flowers is red roses. I'm very pity, that I haven't phone at home and I can't call you. But probably I nevertheless shall can try to do it once. I want to hear yours voice. Smile... I have access in the Internet only on my job. Here is present computer and I can write to you the letter five days per one week except for Saturday and Sunday. Sometimes I can go to Internet-cafe and pay for Internet. But it's expensive for me. When I have free time I like to listen the music and to dance. I listen different types of music. I want to create the happy family! It should be friendly. I had boyfriend long ago, but our relations was not serious. Also, unfortunately I do not have any brothers and sisters. Many people in Russia have brothers and sisters, but I have not. And I'm a little lonely. I am going to search for other job, because I have not enough salary. I think that I can find other job. But here there is a computer and I can write you my ideas (thoughts). Sometimes I so would like to leave somewhere in other city because I was never in other countries and I very much Would like to see all other cities! But I do not have friends in other cities. I very much hope that we shall be the friends at first, and then there can be, that we shall solve something. Write to me your thoughts about it. I think that I shall be the good mother for my future children. I shall try to create strong healthy family. I never drink and I do not smoke. I care of my health. I very much wait for your answer. If you find that my words are interesting please write to me your answer and what you wish during the future. 

Your friend Galya. 

Letter 2

Hi! I'm glad to receive your new letter, Kary. Thank you for your words. I see, that you have become interested in me, and I want to tell you a little about myself now. My fullname is Galina Kislitsina. I was born September 15, 1974 in Vorkuta, Russia. Vorkuta is very far from Moscow. When I was 2,5 years old, my mum has led me to the kindergarten. I went to it till 7 years old. When I have  reached (achieve) 7 years old, I have gone to school. My mum's name is Elena Kislitsina. She is 52 years old now. My father's name is Alexander Kislitsin. My father has thrown mom and me when I was 6 years old. I did not see him since. Unfortunately, I haven't the brothers and sisters. In 1990 I have finished school and has entered a university. I work now as the accountant in small firm. I haven't phone and computer at home and I enter to Internet from my job. But I can't use Internet often. And my level of use the computer very bad (I'm very badly able to use the computer). My height is 168 cm and my weight is 51 kg. I like to do an aerobics. I love dance-music. And when I'm unhappy, I listen to music such as Bryan Adams, Steve Wonder for example. I never drink and I never smoke in my life. I love children very much. Now I visit lessons of studing English language. I never was outside my country. Unfortunately, I have no enough time and money  for travels, but I would like to visit USA in future maybe. If you will ask: "Why you  have not been able to find a partner in Russia???" My answer: "I could not find the good man in Russia. Therefore I search for the friend through Internet". I do not  have boyfriend lately. If you till now are interested in me, next time I shall write about myself else. Much more warm today in our town. The weather is more better. I like it. We have the village called Nikolaevka near our town. It's about 79 kilometers from here. I have a grandmother there. She is 77 years old and her  name is Polina. Sometimes I go to village to visit my grandmother. My grandfather died 1,5 years ago and I still miss him. There are many trees in forest near village and there is a river Chernushka. It's very beautiful. I like clear air and nature. I talked with my mum today again. I said that I have received the new letter from one man from USA. She was surprised. But she think that it's not seriously. I don't know about it but I think that it's maybe seriously. I like to go in for the  sport. My favourite kinds is volleyball, gymnastics and aerobics. I think that we must know about each other more and we must to trust, because it's hasn't interest if it's virtual joke. I hope you think in the same way. With next letter we continue to study each other more and more. With each letter the size of ignorance will become is less. It is very a pity that we far apart. But I think that maybe we can meet in future. But now it's only dream and not more. It's would be very interesting to have meeting with the American man. Today I'm visited by my grandmother from village. She has brought the jam. She prepares it very delicious and I take her recipes. I would like that you tried it. You seem to me as the very good man. I want to write to you the letters further. I received the answers of other  people, but I like you more. I don't know why but I think that it's the right way. I hope to receive your letters again. You can ask me about my life more. I'll send you my answers and continue learn you. I shall ask you too. What do you do in free time? What is your hobby? What do you like?  I shall wait your answer. I wait your new words.

Galya. 

Letter 3 

Hi my dear Kary! 

I am sorry that I could not write you during two days. I have a small problems at work. But it is not serious. You don't care about it. I'm so happy to see your letter again! With each your letter I feel that I know about you more and more and I'm very glad. I feel that you're very interesting for me and I like you. I want to know more about you. Today I have visited my grandmother. We had talk. She said that she want to see me happy and it's real because I write to very interesting person and receive letters from him. It's you Kary. Then I went to the pool. I like to swim there. I like water and sun. I like beach too. Today I think about visit USA. It's interesting and I want too see you in real life. We can talk with you because I believe that we understand each other. How my English??? I write it myself. Please tell me about you more. I'm waiting for your letters. It makes me happy. I have some questions to you: 1) Do you want to find love? 2) How am I looking in pictures? 3) Do you want to learn me more? 4) How hard your life in US? 5) What you think about me? 

Have a nice day!

Your Galya. 

Letter 4 

Dear Kary! 

I love your letters, it makes me crazy and my interest to you is increased. With each next your letter I feel that we can have future with you. Is it real? I don't know, but I want to hope for it. But we must know each other more and more and I think that personal contact is more better than virtual letters. I want to tell you more about me and I hope you too. I think maybe in the future our relations will more seriously. We must have complete trust with you, it's very important. I hate when people deceive each other. And I think that you not such. I hope for it. Maybe at the one moment my feelings to you can be more than friendly. YOU MUST THINK THAT I'M A SERIOUS WOMAN AND I DON'T WANT TO DO MISTAKE IN MY CHOICE OF HUSBAND!!! It is possible, that my feelings to you already now are more than friendly. I see that your words are written by the man with soul. It's warm for me. My soul and heart are warm now and opened for our relations but you must inform me about your feelings because I must know your thoughts about us. I want to say to you thanks for your letters. I really enjoy it and I want to see more your photos. I want to receive more information about your life because I like you and your thoughts now. When I read your letters I thought that you the honour man. It is very wonderful that I am not indifferent to you. I  shall look forward to hearing from you. Write me about your favorite meal more. I very much like to prepare meal. Write me more what you do at a free time. Write to me about your most secretdream. Please write me all, what you want to say. I sure, that I understand your words well. Today I went to the church and has put a candle for you! I very much want, that you will all right. My character very soft and  I very much am upset, if I do something badly. I very much would like to speak with you personally and I hope that sometime it will be so! I think, that if people begin to like each other, then they should be compatible. I think that the love is eternal. And love will win all evil in this world. I shall wait your answer.

Your Galya. 

P.S. You know I want to talk with you. May be you take me a telephone number? Ok? 

Letter 5 

Kary!!! I was very glad to receive from you the letter!!! When I read your letter, the tears of pleasure have appeared on my eyes. I see that we are necessary each other. How you there without me? All last time you fill all my thoughts. You show very strong interest to me. It very pleasantly for me to feel. I began very much think about you and me. What waits for us ahead? Now you the second person in this world, which is most of all necessary to me. The first person is my mom. I am very grateful to you that you trust me. I think, that the dialogue through Internet it's not naturally. We should hand in hand each to other, look to eyes each other and speak, speak, speak. We should speak about you and me. We should speak about all in the world. I have very good mood now. I want to know all about you. You are very important for me. With each next your letter I begin to  understand more and more, that I have found the man, who is the most necessary for me. I want to embrace you by caress and tenderness. I consider, that the creation of the spiritual and emotional basis of the people is sense and purpose of creation of family. I want to tell you, that my feelings and words concerning you always were sincerely. And I always understood that we put a lot of trust to create our union. Now I am sure on all 100 that I can trust you. And you are that man, which is necessary for me. When I read your letters, I had seen there your sincerity and fidelity to me. Reading your last letter, I have understood something. I have made for myself the large conclusion, which is possible to express in three words "I LOVE YOU". Today I felt myself very excellently! All my work was turned out very easily, because all my thoughts were directed to you. I as though knew, when you think about me and I think about you too. And these thoughts has warmed my soul and body. I understand, that our mutual relation is under construction on trust. But we should trust each other. Without it our union simply can't exist. Today, when I went to my job, I thought, how much I should tell to  you. I could not find words. But when I have read your message, the words have appeared by themselves. How I already spoke, that between us there should be a absolute trust, and we should know all about each other. Well... I do not know how to inform you... I'm the virgin. You probably think, that I such not modern, but I consider that I should have intimate relation with the favorite man. Now I have the large liking to you. I don't know why, but it's the truth. Sometimes I am visited by dreams, but I still am ashamed speak to you about it. But we have agreed to be honest with each other... well... I shall tell you... This dream has visited me today night. "You and I have supper with candles in your home. And then we go to your  bedroom and we begin to love each other." But in life I know very little about sex. Only from movies. Excuse me that I speak with you so frankly, but I think that you should know all about me. I would be happy to meet you. It's a limit of my desires. My feelings to you are expressed by this poem. My love is like a burning flame Dying out until I know your name In my heart I'm crying out for you Unwrap my love, this you can only do Give me all your love and I'll give you mine And forever the two of us will combine I want to please your mind, body, and soul I want to be the only love you know I may be young, but my love is pure We both have lonely hearts, Together we're the cure I hold so many secrets I can only tell you But where is my soulmate, God just give me a clue For love we both know just what it takes We have to love, honor, trust, and communicate With you I must be united My mind will be at ease, My heart will be delighted When I find you, into one we will be grown But remember, We all enter and leave this world alone. I shall wait for your answer. 

With love your Galya. 

P.S. You know I have found an opportunity to write down. Listen it. I am sorry that here there are some discrepancies is because I have written down the speech earlier than have received your letter. 

Letter 6 

Hi my love Kary! 

I'm very glad to see and to read your perfect letter. Your letters warm me and give me energy for all day. I have said to my mom, that I love you very strongly. I don't know why it's occurs but it's the truth. I very strongly love you and I can't live without you. A little coldly in Magnitogorsk now, but your letters warm me. I very much miss here without you and I want to see you soon. I'm very pleased, that you want it also. Yesterday my mom was a little unwell. I went to the doctor and  he has given me medicines for the mom. I think, that she will be all right. She approves my choice of you now and considers you as the good man. She says to you HI! I very much wants, that you will write me soon. And even more strongly I want, that our meeting was held sooner. I'm wait this moment. Sometimes, when I lie down to sleep, I think about you. I'm happy and I smile. I open my eyes and I see, that you are not present with me.


Ina Adamova (Minsk, Belarus)

Hello, here a scam-report about a lady already mentioned a few times: Ina Adamova Minsk Belarus; she still says she is a children's doctor. Because I live in Europe, have been in Russia twice, know a lot of Eastern-Europe I proposed a meeting during my vacation in Poland (she then could simply take a cheap bus and would not need any visa); and guess what: I then got an email that her father had suddenly died and so she had to go with her mother to their home-town; and exactly during the 22 days of my vacation..... I later didn't feel comfortable anymore so stopped all contacts; happily she could not even ask me for money as it was not needed yet.

I am a Dutch man, 38, divorced, no children, was contact originated from 2 different free advertisements of her, 1 address I can't remember anymore, the other: www.sols4sols.com; it lasted about 2,5 months; seemed to be very serious but the fact that her "out-of-town because father's death"; exactly in the period we could meet easily made ring a bell in my head. Also the fact that later when I tried to phone the number was inoperative didn't improve my thinking positive. Finally the fact that she claimed some emails didn't came. I wrote a letter about the not-so-positive image of her country and esp. her president on which came a short email; I think she realized I wasn't going to be fooled: an American is easier to fool because of the long distance, and because most of them never been before in FSU; I on the contrary have been there, now a lot and have enough bells in my head that ring on time; although I must confess that if she had been more "normal" I maybe would have been fooled also. But I have a simple policy: when someone (that is an agency or a person) ask for money all contacts are terminated: it's the only 100% way to be sure not to loose any money. To any agency I simply reply that I'm happy to pay for example USD 150 but only after any marriage. Any scams are this way eliminated as they just want money, no marriage. The final of the story was my silence: I just have thrown away all emails, photos etc. I haven't have any photos anymore but 1 was the same as in 1 of your stories: black dress. Simple way to get some photos: go to www.sols4sols.com, search, and give some search-terms: woman, age 26-28, Minsk, Belarus, Ina.

Lesson 1: NEVER send money; Lesson 2: NEVER believe a girl is coming: any true interested girl should first want you to come...! Lesson 3: ask always for a phone-number; a real address. And please advertise more about this site which I just found: it's great! 

J v Haaster Holland


Larisa Kosmina (Alexandrovna) (Kyrghyz Republic, Bishkek)  

The person's name is Kosmina Larisa Alexandrovna and the Country is: Kyrghyz Republic, City of Bishkek. The bank is: Bank Bakai (ISANOVA st. 75, Bishkek ) post code is 720000, and bank's phone is (996312) 660610. I located this person through CupidsRomance.com. CupidsRomance was very helpful and has completely deleted her from their system as well has sent out a memo to all of their clients who emailed her. I emailed this person about a week ago and already she was insisting on marriage, sex all the time and being a faithful housewife. She complained about her living conditions and said that they were unbearable. I was able to create a fake screen name and send her an email stating that I was interested in her. She immediately sent me a return letter with the exact same format letter she had originally sent my other email address, not knowing I was the same person. Now understand that she believed I was in the processes of sending her money to buy a plane ticket and live in the United States. A total 930.00 (350 for visa and the rest for plane ticket). Well when I responded from my fake email that I would marry her (after two emails), she gave that fake screen name a price of over 1200.00 to buy the same visa and plane ticket. She still believes that I am going to send her money, I have contacted the FBI and am waiting to hear from them. The person insists that in 3-5 days she can have all of the documents and be in the USA within one week.

Thank you,

Chad Garcia


Marina Antonova (Yoshkar-Ola, Mari-El, Russia) aka Natalya Jitinkina (Natasha) (Yoshkar-Ola, Mari-El, Russia), aka Maksimova Ksenia (Oksana) Mihailovna (Yoshkar-Ola, Mari-El, Russia)  

After I registered on Absolute Agency, a person using the name Marina Antonova, nickname Deva, attempted to scam me using the address love131@yandex.ru, which is the same same address and nickname as used by Natalya Jitinkina. 

First letter: 

Hi my Dear Gary! I very much pleasure to your letter. Excuse, that I to not write to you earlier. I was very much engaged on mine work. I to want to speak it is more about itself! My work consists in treating and to prevent diseases of children. It is the very necessary work. I to work on changes. It once in afternoon, other time in night. I very much to love my work. At home I have a dog. Its(her) name Palkan. It is the large dog, but very kind. When I to play on the piano she(it) to sing under music. I to play different music. Me to like music of the composers such as Bah, Shopen, Mocart and others. My favourite food is sea products, and, also various fruit salads, but I also can prepare and other dishes. I the very good cook. In mine free from work time I to go walk in a wood or on lake, when warm weather. In winter evenings I love laying in beds to read the romantic books, and also to do(make) of a wool of the ram of a sweater and scarfs. I also very much love sports. I to be engaged in gymnastics. Also I to look on Tv football, hockey, basketball. I am very happy, that I to find you on friend finder. I always to wait for your new photos and pictures. My city small it(he) to be near cities Moscow, and still it(he) in 150 kilometers from cities Kazan. My grandmother transfers you large hi. She(it) learned(taught) me to do(make) pies. I to think, when we shall be together, I shall do(make) to you tasty pies. I today to go on walk in park. What you will do(make) today? I am interested by(with) each your step. Well? I shall write to you tomorrow. Very much, very to wait for your letters! It is a lot of, much, kiss also embraces much. Yours Marina 

Second letter: 

Hi My dear Gary. I to write to you the letters from cafe of the Internet. It - very much speed. I to not have children! I was never married! I very much to want to marry. My age 27 years. I earlier end (finishing) musical school. I be capable to play on a piano. I to work the children's medical sister. What you to love to do(make) in free from work time? You loved my photo? What you to love from foodstuff? What your complete name? Today in me to target (free day) and I have decided(solved) to you to write. Today we with the mum we shall go to the grandmother. She(it) lives in 50 kilometers from our city in village. I to arrive back from the grandmother today in evening! I live in city Yoshkar-Ola. There in it (its)((her)) perfect character (nature) and circle of one wood. She(it) will prepare pies, which are made (made) in the furnace. They very tasty (delightful) and fragrant. You probably such did not try. I spoke with the mum concerning the our attitudes(relations). I spoke her(it) some phrases from your letter, and she(it) spoke, that you probably pay in time man and your feelings sincerely under the (attitude)((relation)) to me, but you should not hurry with acceptance the serious decision, you should understand feelings. We with you as two climbers, which raise in a mountain, only I on the one hand, and you with other and final item (point) - top, on which we shall run into debt, will meet. We should advance to top which is not observing an obstacles, which can will, meet on our way, and then in  us it will be very good with impatience, I live with the mum together. I shall wait  your answer. Whole also Will kiss Marina Antonova 

P.S. I to send you a photo. On this photo I at mine the grandmother by it in the summer. You to like mine a nickname Deva? 

Third letter: 

Hi my dear! I can not today much write to you as I only to end my work today in morning. I to work yesterday in night change and very much weariness, but I very much to miss for you and after work I has come in Internet cafe to write to you this letter. I hope, what at you all am good? What you will do(make) today by evening after work? You to look TV or will go for a walk with the friends? But, only do not go for a walk with other ladies. Well? My grandmother and mum to transfer you large hi. I am very good to carry out(spend) time at mine the grandmother. We with it(her) to go in a wood and to collect berries. Then we with it(her) to do(make) pies with various stuffings. Mine are favourite a pie consists of a raspberry. Also we to do(make) a pie of meat and egg. When I shall be together with you, I shall do(make) to you various pies and other tasty food. I very much love to prepare as meat under white sauce. I do not love meat. I am more to prefer fruit and fish. Well, I to think, that now I shall go home and to have some dream. I hope, that you to write to me is very speed! I very much to require your letters. Kiss much. Yours Marina 

P.S. I to send you a photo on which we with mine the mum in city Kazan. 

Fourth letter: 

My dear Gary. It is pleasant to me very much, when me to name Marinka! I am very pleased to receive news from you again and again. I very much love to read your of the letter, and they deliver me many pleasures. With each your letter I begin, understand, that in us with you that can which was going. I am already more reflection on the our attitude more serious. My opinion - those, I examine(consider) it as most important between the man and woman by this complete trust (trust), I hate, when the people deceive each other. As I examine (expect) that it is the moment we of life to accept the conciliatory proposals, you see, that it also - important part of the attitude(relation) between the man and woman. You probably think, that I the most serious man, but it not so, I simply do not want to be mistaken in a choice of the future husband and man of sympathy. At the given moment my feelings to YOU already, that it is more than friendly. To your words I begin to understand, that you the man of honour. Your words, which you write to me warm my soul and heart. So it is wonderful, when there there is in this world a man to which I is not indifferent. It is pleasant to me so that to receive from you letter and feeling, which I thus check to not pass by words. I still to want it is a little to speak about itself. I to have green colour of an eye. It is pleasant to you? I to not be able driving the machine and motorcycle, but I very much to want to study in this. I love to sit about houses in night time and supervision at the star sky. It is very romantic! I as love dances under slow music at dark light of a lamp, when the man and woman speak each other gentle words. I to think, that distinction in the age of have no large meaning(importance). Main, that there was a love and mutual understanding! My work consists in studying bodies of the child and prevention of his disease! I to work for 10 hours per day, but if for me night change, in night! Today I shall go to work per day. Tomorrow I to work in night change and I shall miss very much for you! I to think, that soon I shall be ability to arrive in you. I soon will have vacation. Me always like your photo. Send me most your favourite photo and I shall try to do(make) its(her) listing and to place her(it) above the bed in a sleeping room! Well? Probably on it I shall come to an end and with the large impatience. I shall wait your following letter. The large embraces also kiss. Yours Marina. 

Fifth letter: 

Hi my Lover. I was never married, but very much it to want. I never to be engaged in sex with the man! It is very pleasant to me to learn(find out) that we by mutual understanding each other, you see it is the very important fact in ours with you the attitudes(relations). If we want to create strong union, we should trust and understand each other in all I feel fine, concerning me can not worry with me that's all right. Today I have received from us at job wages. To you probably will be ridiculous but she has made forty dollars. Well good we shall not speak about problems which rise on our way. I never to be outside Russia, but to want it. If I shall be really sure in the man. I shall be ready to go in any country to be together with it(him). For me two things in life are important. It is honesty and mutual understanding. What things are important for you? I to write to you at 3 o'clock in the afternoon. I to think, that you still to sleep, me very much to want be there near to you. To me earlier to write it is a lot of the men, but now I to understand, that to me am necessary you! I to think, that she(it) is pleasant to you. Write to me as it is possible more often, I very much like to read your letters, they install in me any pleasure in life, to believe in that that at me somewhere away there is liked a man, the mood at once raises, it would be desirable to live and to believe in that that we when be we shall meet. I shall wait for your answer today. Many times you a kiss and from the bottom of the heart I embrace. You in my heart each minute. On all rest of life yours Marina 


Marina Svetlova (Ekaterina Ershov) ( Murmansk, Russia) 

I am a single, white American from Indiana 34 years old!! I am glad I found your site!! Out of the blue I received a message from oneandonly,com that somebody wanted to contact me! So I sent Marina or whatever her real name is a letter. My  story and the letter s are almost identical to what was told about Raisa on page 27. The first letter she sent me was the same exactly that she had sent to Mark!!  

First Letter: 

Hi my friend. I am glad that you have answered to me. I did not think that  it will be so soon. But believe me I am so glad to this fact. I want to tell to you about myself. My growth is 168 centimeter, weight is about 57 kgs. I was born on September 5, 1974, in a very good family of two loving each other people: my father and my mother. I live in city of Murmansk. I like my city. I'll give you some information about my city: Murmansk stands in 300 kilometers to the north of a Polar circle and in 30 miles from open sea: its geographical coordinates - 68 '58' northern breadthes and 33 '03' east longitudes. The city was stretched more than 20-kilometer strip along not freezing the Kola gulf. Murmansk is administrative, industrial, scientific and cultural centre. Almost half of all population of the Kola peninsula lives here. The population of Murmansk today is more than 400 thousand people. The area of city is more than 15 thousand hectares. The city is located main by image on east coast of the Kola gulf - most brisk bay of coast Murman. On globe in the same breadthes there is no other city, which could be compared to Murmansk on scales. Murmansk houses as if grow from rocky hills environmental the Kola gulf. It is summer here now. There are a lot of green here now, this is the most perfect season here in our territory. But as the summer is hot here the winter is really cold. My favourite season is spring, when the nature again wakes up after winter dream, and everything begin to blossom. I studied in Murmansk state technical university, also has received high education on a speciality marketing. But unfortunately I did not need my education yet, because here in our country it is very difficult to find job on a speciality. Now I work as the waiter in small restaurant. I'd love to learn more about you. Besides I would like to see your photos. I like to be in good health every time.That's why each day I rise early in morning and I carry out morning jog. I do not drink alcohol and do not smoke. On the summer I like very much swim in the sea, and on winters I go to the pool. So in general I  like to support a healthy image of life. It helps in life very much, and supports my figure. Though I live in this city I didn't meet my half yet. When I read the newspaper I have seen the announcement that it is possible to meet the man through the Internet and I has decided to try to find someone for me through Internet. Fortunately here is the computer at director's cabinet, and I have asked the him to let me to use it. And he has permitted me to use it no more than one hour per day. I liked your profile and I have decided to write to you. When I wrote you I did not think at all that you will answer me. I am very glad to receive your  letter. Write me about yourself. I'll wait for your next letter. Your friend from Russia Marina. 

This has been going on for about a month or so I should have raised a flag when I sent flowers for her birthday and they called and said there was no such address!! She tried to explain this as Russian mail I sent them thru FTD so was a bunch of crap!! But I then asked for the address where she worked she never did give it to me! Never answered questions She asked for 260 dollars for Visa and passport I sent 280 a little extra I thought would help out! There were other things that should have thrown up red flags but I was I guess infatuated! I am glad I found this sight It saved me from getting the 640 dollars I had just sent to her on Sat from loosing that!! Beware of her!! Thanks Again to this sight and to Mark!! Sincerely Brian Ps I have enclosed pictures she sent to me!! 


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