Lyudmila Evgrafova (Cheboksary, Chuvashija, Russia)
Hi, my name is Terence. I am 37 years old and live in South Africa. I would like to thank the creators of this site and especially one contributor to the site, namely Shane, who wrote a profile on a Miheeva, Marina aka Margo. You have saved me a lot of money and a lot of grief.
The thing to remember about dating site scammers, and this one in particular, is that even though they may correspond with you for weeks - they are essentially lazy. They may respond to the general gist of your e-mails but generally do not respond to specific details, such as questions, comments or photos. They also have a tendency to re-use a lot of the same material that has worked for them in the past. It is this fact that I recognized in my correspondence with this scammer: Lyudmila Evgrafova aka Mila from Cheboksary, Chuvashija, Russia. She/he/it contacted me on the thunderboltcity.com website operated by DatingBuzz where her profile name was Lily_01. As soon as I became aware of the fact that she was a scammer, which was about 2 weeks ago, I notified the dating site and they immediately removed her from the site. I have continued to correspond with her, as if nothing has changed, I wanted to get a more complete profile on this individual and some real, traceable info on this scammer, such as an address and bank account details and also to just mess this person around a bit as payback for all the grief they have caused. Karma is a b*tch!
Lyudmila's e-mail address, which is still operational, is goldsmallfish@yahoo.com I include all the e-mails and photos which I received from this scammer. (Play spot the similarities with Shane's correspondence and any correspondence you have received from your potential Russian bride!)
Thanks again to the site creators and contributors for this much needed service that you provide.
Yours sincerely
Terence
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MESSAGE 2 - "Hi" 25/02/2007
Hi my new friend. Terence, I am very glad that we
communicate with you.
I there is nobody earlier did not communicate on the
Internet for me
it is a novelty. I hope at you too there is a desire
to communicate
with me and to send messages. Thus we can learn more
about each other.
I wish to tell about that where I live and a little
about myself. My
name Lyudmila. Friends call me Mila. To me of 30
years. I do not have
children and I was not married. After study I work as
the
doctor-radiologist. To like me this of the robot.
Sometimes I go in
for sports, I play volleyball, I float in pool. I like
to visit
different places and to travel, but because of work I
have not enough
time.
I wish to tell to you about that where I live. I live
in the middle of
Russia, in the small city of Cheboksary. I live with
mum and the daddy
in one apartment. I hope, that the big difference in
distance will not
prevent to communicate to us. For me thousand miles us
are not
important how many divide, because I think that loving
people ignore
distance. How you think?
I shall send you the picture and a picture of city
where I live. At us
small but very beautiful city.
Tell to me about you and if there are questions do not
hesitate ask.
What do you have for an entertainment? What to you to
like in women?
What character at you? Whether you are married? I
shall answer your
questions and you learn more about me. I shall wait
for your messages.
Your friend Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 3 - "Hello" 27/02/2007
Hello Terence, I am glad to receive your message. Your
message speaks me
that I am interesting to you you wish to communicate
with me.
I have to you some questions. I shall ask them in the
messages. I hope
that you will give me sincere answers. Terence, you
for me are nice
therefore I wish to know your opinion on some things.
You likely read
my structure and could see there that I have serious
intentions gets
acquainted with the good person. I very romantic
person and to like me
romantic attitudes between the man and the woman.
Likely all women
dream to have such attitudes. But often such attitudes
come to an end
after a while. I do not wish to spend time for such
attitudes. I wish
to find in the life of the good person and to have
with it stable
attitudes, probably family and children. Meanwhile I
yet have not
found which such person in the life I could give
completely myself and
entrust it the life. Write to me please that you think
of this? You
tell to me what woman wish to find in the life? Excuse
that I ask you
to discuss such frank things with which person you
know couple of
days, but it is necessary nobility for the profavor of
our
acquaintance for me is. I shall wait for your message.
Yours faithfully Mila.
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MESSAGE 4 - "Hey" 28/02/2007
Hi Terence. We with each message learn each other more
increasing and
more. It is very interesting to me.
I send you other picture, I hope it to you it is
pleasant. Tell to me
please more in detail about the family. With whom you
live? What at
you with them attitudes? Whether often you see them?
In my family of
the attitude relatives. I already mentioned that I
live with mum and
the daddy, in one apartment. To the father of 57
years, he works as
the turner at a tractor factory, and mum 54 year she
works as the
doctor. We often together leave to have a rest on the
nature.
In private life at me nothing has turned out. Two
years ago I loved
one man at us all it was good, but he has grown fond
of other girl and
we have left him. And now I the lonely girl, dreaming
to find the
love. I think that the woman should be first of all
true to the
favourite person and to create with him happy the
future and happy
family. Tell to me piles of an idea on this. I shall
wait for your
messages.
Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 5 - "Ideas" 01/03/2007
Hi Terence
I am glad to receive from you the letter. To me it is
very pleasant,
that read my letters and study my ideas. I usually do
not open the
ideas to poorly familiar people. I do not know why,
but I trust you
and I can tell a lot of prophetic about myself.
Possibly there should
be such person who can open the ideas. Sometimes such
happens. And I
am glad, that you that person to whom I can trust and
open the ideas.
Now it is time to me to go to make some work. I hope,
that we shall
continue our dialogue and we shall learn about each
other more than
things.
Have good day.
I shall wait for your messages.
Yours Mila
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MESSAGE 6 - "Magic" 02/03/2007
Dear Terence!
Thanks for your message. Your messages really please
me. This week I
have a new theme for reflection, and new ideas excite
me.
For me starts to have importance our correspondence.
These are new
emotions in my quiet heart. For me it is unusual to
begin attitudes by
means of e-mail. That that between us the big distance
draws my ideas
to you. I for a long time have understood, that if is
available, some
difficulties to reach the purpose the desire to reach
this purpose
increases. Probably it is one of those things who
forces me to reflect
often about
You Terence. I think, that I should grasp your heart
and you cannot
struggle then with this female magic.
What you on it tell dear.
I again wish to ask to you some questions: That there
are
main values in your life: family, work, money
Or something another? What your plans for the future?
Write, Also inform your ideas,I shall wait your
messages.
Your Lyudmila
ps. I search serious attitudes and consequently I
think we can meet sometime face to face if you appear
the suitable person
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MESSAGE 7 - "Romanticism" 03/03/2007
Hello dear Terence.
I am very glad to receive from you letters. To me it
is very pleasant
when you to me write letters. I send you a new
picture. I hope it is
pleasant to you to receive from me new pictures. I
also wish from you
to receive new pictures.
Dear Terence I would like to learn how many from you a
free time and
what is the time you spend for relatives? I like to
spend time with
relatives. I the romantic person. I would like to
spend time with the
favourite person. But while it is impossible, as I yet
have not found
him, but I hope, that at us all to turn out and we
shall be together.
I would like a romantic supper at candles with the
favourite person.
Dear, I wish to ask to you not a modest question which
concerns
your private life. Forgive please, that I enter into
your private
life, but it is necessary for me. It will depend on
our further
attitudes. You have a woman whom you love?
I set this question because it will affect our
attitudes in the
further.
All good, yours Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 8 - "Sorry" 05/03/2007
Hello my dear Terence. I am very glad to receive from
you messages. It
is very pleasant. I very much regret, that last night
I did not write
to you. Because I had no opportunity. In our apartment
there is no
phone and I cannot leave in the Internet and write to
you. I write to
you letters from my girlfriend. She lives close from
me. In her
apartment there is an Internet. Yesterday she leaved
and from for this
I could not get her at home. Today she has arrived
also I write to
you.
Today we with the girlfriend shall go to cinema or
theatre. It is not
a pity that I can invite you to go with me. Because we
are divided
with many thousand miles. We could look together
cinema or dance. I
very much want it. We with you danced, had a good
time. After our legs
will get tired from dances, we shall fall in a bed and
further our
imagination will show.
I wish to add, that my imagination very much, very
much and it is very
developed. These ideas so please me. But all I on it
finish the
letter.
I wait for your messages.
While your Lyudmila.
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MESSAGE 9 - "Cooking" 06/03/2007
Hi mine dear Terence
It is very pleasant to Me to read your messages,
thanks for your
words. I send you other picture, I hope to those
pictures which to you
sent you have got used. I hope this picture you will
please. Today my
work is finished, having written to you I shall make a
dinner for my
family. My mum was ill also I a little wish her to
please. Dear what
dish is pleasant to you? What do you love? A dessert,
meat, a fish?
Inform me it. I well prepare. My mum has learned me to
this many years
back. I easily do various salads, a fish, soups...
Very much it is
pleasant to Me fruit: the Melon, a peach, apples,
pears, pineapple.
Today I shall prepare for the hen with fruit. You love
is tasty to
eat? Now I go to kitchen, I hope parents will be
happy.
I wait for your messages!
My kisses your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 10 - "Fishing" 08/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence.
I am glad to receive again from you messages. I am
glad, that in our
attitudes there is a ray of light and we become closer
people. I tell
about you to my parents and friends much. It is
pleasant to them, that
I have such friend and hope will get acquainted with
you. I spoke
them, that is serious to you I concern, that you the
kind and
quick-witted person. You know, parents always wish the
children only
good and are pleased, when their children are happy in
everything, and
especially in personal attitudes. My father very much
loves fishing,
and since that moment as I have told to him about you
he hopes when be
to invite you to fishing. I long laughed at this, and
have told to
him, that at all I do not know you like to go on
fishing, it is
possible to you not interestingly.
And you Terence, told to the relatives about me? What
do they think of
me? Tell about this. At you is what be plans
concerning our attitudes?
I think, that for us it will be important, if we can
spend time
together. It will strengthen our attitudes and will
help us to learn
about each other more. Probably next month we can
meet. Understand me
correctly, I cannot invite you to myself yet as I live
at the parents
and for the present I know you for this purpose not
enough. I very
much would wish you to see you eyes and to feel your
touches. Dear, we
can so to make full opinion on us, to learn much about
new things, to
share with each other new impressions and to discuss
it. I wait for
your opinions.
I miss, your Lyudmila
ps. My surname Evgrafova
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MESSAGE 11 - "Hope for meeting" 09/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence
I am very glad to receive from you letters. To me it
is pleasant, that
you support my idea of a meeting and wish also me to
see. I think in
following messages we it we shall discuss more more in
detail with
you, and we shall specify time of a meeting and a
place.
You do not represent as pleasantly girl that there is
a man which
wishes to hold her in the hands. Terence, thanks you
for it. What ideas
about meetings at you is? Inform me on this.
When you will get in my embraces from them to you it
will be difficult
to get out. Now I finish the letter. I wait for your
messages.
Your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 12 - "Variant" 10/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence
I have good day. How you feel yourself dear? With me
all is good.
I yesterday could not fall asleep and all thought
about our meetings
as it would be pleasant to me to have this day. I with
impatience wait
for this day.
You have delivered many emotions during my life and to
me it is
difficult with it will consult, but I can tell to you.
That it is very
pleasant. It gives me the purpose in a life. For me
difficulties will
not take holiday about work that mark free days. Then
we can meet more
close from you or even to arrive to you for some days.
For me
difficulties will not make longer travel. If it is
convenient for you
also my arrival will not make to you problems give we
shall choose
this plan. It will be very convenient for me, because
I shall see your
friends, native, I shall see as you live. You can
render me the city
and your favourite places. For me work is not so
important also it can
do without me, therefore I do not worry about work.
Inform me dear,
that you think, if it is convenient for you too I
shall start to
prepare for travel.
Your Lyudmila.
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MESSAGE 13 - "Answer me" 12/03/2007
Hello my dear Terence.
I am happy to receive from you the letter and to read,
that you want,
that I have arrived to you. I too very strongly want
our meeting. But
before to arrive to you, I need to know one thing. I
wished to know,
if I shall arrive to you where you will place me? In
hotel or at
itself? I need to know it. I shall wait for your
answer.
Your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 14 - "Check" 13/03/2007
Hi mine dear Terence
It is very pleasant to me to read your messages, I am
glad to learn,
that you are ready to meet me in the house. Thanks,
that you trust me.
In the last message I wished to check up you, our
attitudes are
serious, forgive for it, you should understand, how it
for me is
important, you are ready to accept in the house or
not. If we met in
hotel or in other place I should think, that you do
not wish to
receive me in the house because I would think that you
not seriously
concern to me and wish to meet me for an
entertainment. It is check
there was precaution I heard, that many to get
acquainted with the new
person because of sex. Though they write in the
structure that serious
attitudes have. Now I am confident road Terence, I am
glad that you have
appeared that person whom I wish to meet! Favourite I
with pleasure
shall spend at you some days. These days I shall reach
in travel
agency and to receive the information, what to reach
to you. I shall
write to you details in the following message. I wait
your letters.
I adore you, my dear.
Your Lyudmila
ps. I shall look for suitable agency of travel in the
near future.
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MESSAGE 15 - "Call to agent" 14/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence
I am very glad to receive your message of thanks you,
that you have
not forgotten me. You who me understand one of those.
How has passed
your day road? I hope at you all well. I have news to
you Terence. Today
I talked to the agent of travel. He to me has told,
that will receive
the visa in your country difficultly, but the agent
can probably help
me, he did not begin to speak by all to phone and has
appointmented.
Soon I shall meet him and I shall discuss a question
with the visa. I
hope my favourite, that at all of us it will be good.
I very much
worry, but is very firmly going to meet you the road,
therefore no
barrier and charges of money will stop me. Write to me
please more,
road, your messages will please me and to give me
force. I send you my
gentle kisses and strong I embrace you.
Your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 16 - "Meeting with agent" 15/03/2007
Hi my dearest Terence
I am very glad to receive from you news. Dear I have
good news to you.
I have met the agent of travel to learn about the
visa. He has told to
me, that the visa in your country to receive it became
more complex
because of terrorism and on it some time is required.
Fortunately the
agent has appeared friend of my father and he will try
to make more
and more quickly. Nevertheless he has told, that
recently has made
some visas to tourists which wished to go to the SA. I
am glad, that
with the visa there will be no big problems, but 2-3
weeks will be all
the same necessary. One of these days I shall spend
day to do photos,
to carry them in agency, to fill questionnaires, to
sign the contract
and to solve a problem on payment. I am happy, that we
soon shall
together. Write to me that you think. I very much wait
for your
messages.
Your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 17 - "Photos" 17/03/2007
Hi my dearest Terence.
Fine I am very glad to receive then your letter today.
It is really
surprising, that we have found each other at a great
distance. At me
such feeling, that I know you many years. When I shall
arrive, I shall
bring with me directly photos of my childhood. That
you in the
greatest possible degree have learned about me. And I
very much would
like to see your photos of the childhood. I can tell
very much much
about myself and hear stories about you. I think to
you, interesting
will learn about me all. I shall tell to you a lot of
interesting of
my life. We shall spend the best days together, my
prince. I shall
belong to you and only to you. I so am excited by
idea, that we soon
shall together.
I wait for your messages
Your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 18 - "Contract" 18/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence
I am glad to welcome you and with impatience I wait,
when I can tell
to you hi - personally. Many thanks to you for yours
the message.
Terence, my day was very strained, I am very tired. I
went in agency and
have concluded with them the contract. According to
this contract, the
agency will prepare me all documents for flight, to
buy for me the
ticket and will deliver me up to the plane. From my
city not whence to
depart and consequently I will need to go to Moscow,
therefrom already
to fly to you. My agent should know a route of the
plane inform me the
address and specify to me the nearest airport. This
information is
necessary already tomorrow that the agent could
develop a route and
inform a total sum of travel. Today I have paid a part
of money for
the visa and other documents. It it has appeared much
more than I
thought, I thought, that the visa costs 260 dollars,
but because of
problems for its reception there were 500 dollars.
Probably your help
for payment of other part of cost of travel is
required to me. At me
is a few money, I have taken some money from parents,
but I think them
will not suffice for payment of the second part of
cost for insurance
and the ticket. This it will be clear, when the agent
will inform a
route. The second part of money I need to pay before
receiving the
visa. If the help I shall inform you is required to
me, I hope it for
you will not render a problem and I can not worry
about it. I shall
inform you all to news on plans of our meeting and now
I go to sleep.
I am very tired today, I hope can soon embrace you.
With
impatience I wait for the message from you. The whole,
I embrace you.
Your Lyudmila
PS do not forget to inform me the address and the
nearest airport.
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MESSAGE 19 - "Full cost" 19/03/2007
Hi my Dear Terence. I am very glad to receive from you
news and to read
your letters. I am glad. That you can help me with
payment of my
travel. Dear, it is very inconvenient to me to ask to
help you to me.
I always considered myself independent and thought,
that I can always
solve the problems itself. But this time I could not
consider all of
circumstance and could not will cope with payment of
travel. When I
travelled at me not earlier so left money much, it was
much cheaper. I
am glad, that you at thinking are. I know, that you
never will throw
me and will not leave a difficult minute. When we were
not familiar I
thought, that very strong and independent, and now I
feel myself the
woman requiring in support and the help. It is
pleasant to me to feel
it because I know, that strong and kind the man,
capable to support me
a difficult minute.
I have informed the information to the agent which you
have given to
me also it have counted the remained charges for me.
The general
charges for me 1186 $. Into this sum enters: the
ticket, insurance,
road up to the airport and other insignificant
charges. I have already
paid one part, it have managed to me in 570 $. And now
in the near
future it is necessary for me 616 $ to pay to agency
the second part
of cost of travel. I very much hope, that you do not
become angry
about me. In fact it is not planned charges for you.
I miss on you and I can not wait our meeting. About
impatience I wait
for your messages.
With love your Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 20 - "616 $US" 21/03/2007
Hi my dear Terence
I wish to speak with you about many things, but
probably you will be
tired with the big message. Therefore I shall ask now
the most
important things for me. Dear, you have pleasure when
you think of our
fast meeting? Whether you informed the close people
what you will soon
accept me? What they have opinion on this? My parents
and friends are
enough, that I shall meet you. They are glad, that I
at last have met
the person to whom I have big respect and serious
intentions. I think,
that probably the destiny not casually acquainted me
with you.
The full sum for payment of agency 1186$US. Here
tickets, insurance,
road up to the airport and some other necessary
charges. I have
already paid some money. To me only remains 616$US. As
soon as I shall
pay 616$ I shall have all details of my flight. The
agent of travel
speaks, that I can take off in 7-10 days after payment
of travel.
Now Terence, I shall inform you some news which I
learned from the
agent. He informed me, that they do not accept, for
payment, bank
moving of money for the account, from private persons.
They accept
such payment only from the organization at travel by
groups. Therefore
I to me too should do the second part of payment by
cashes. The agent
has told, that in our city some banks are engaged in
moving of money
from other countries. He has told. That they do it
quickly, it demands
for them about one day. In our city systems for moving
"Money Gram"
work. Tomorrow I shall reach there and to learn, how
it to do. I shall
inform you all to a detail on it in following
messages. Now I finish
the letter. I wait for yours the message my darling.
My kisses and
embraces!!! Your Lyudmila.
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MESSAGE 21 - "Money Gram" 22/03/2007
Hi my dearest Terence
I received the detailed information on moving money.
To do it, you
need to go to bank in which there is an office "Money
Gram". In bank
to me have told, that such offices are available in
each city,
therefore for you the problem will not find it. When
you will send
money, you will need to specify my full name and the
address. When I
shall receive this money I should specify your full
name and the
address. Also, I should inform in bank confidential
number(MTCN) and a
confidential question-answer. This number to you will
inform in bank
at sending money, and you will need to be informed
this number and a
question-answer to me in the messages. All moving will
borrow some
hours, but it will be necessary to pay for it some
money to bank. I
think, that it is a reliable and simple way of moving
of money.
Well here that I have learned that about moving money.
I shall wait
for your messages.
With love
Lyudmila
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MESSAGE 22 - "My details" 24/03/2007
Hi my dearest Terence
How you? I reached in agency. They have told, that
within the next few
days my visa will be here. The embassy approved my
questionnaire and
consequently I can soon arrive to you. Also they asked
to pay within
the next few days other money (616 $) for payment.
My details:
Evgrafova Lyudmila
country Russia
region Chuvash Republic
city Cheboksary,
Gagarin's street
house 25, apartment 49
postal index 428000.
Also, do not forget after that, to inform me the
information; a full
name, the address and confidential number. I promised
agency to pay
them within the next few days. Approximately in 10
days or it is a
little more, I can arrive to you. Please, dear, plan
this time for me.
I have intention to take away you these days from all
your affairs
that you belonged only to me. And for it I promise to
surround you at
this time, my caress and care. I hope, that it will be
a pleasant
exchange for you! My kisses and embraces for you
with love
your Lyudmila
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