MY OTHER HALF, MY SOULMATE
by Warren D Wheatle
My name is Warren and I am a 37yr old Australian male who has had 3
failed relationships in a row. It makes you think when this is happening, if
you are doing something wrong. Perhaps, but, I was the faithful one, not
my partners, who saw unfaithfulness and betrayal of the heart more important than my Love and devotion for them. It is sad that our women
here do not value a relationship as generations of the past did. So, 3 failed
relationships was like a game of Baseball, strike 3, You're
About 11 years ago I remember a conversation I had with my Father one
day on the verandah. Saying to him that I really think the person I am to be
with is not even here in Australia, but somewhere else in this big world.
And the chances of us ever meeting were millions to one. This idea was
left at that 11 years ago, but, never lost in my mind since. It was one day in
March of 2002, I woke and felt an urge to finally test this idea out. Armed
with a pen and paper, I began to write down the profile of my "Dream
Lady" in great detail. I than wrote the profiles of the women from the 3
failed relationships one after the other and compared them all. I was not
surprised to find all 3 were similar in some aspects, but, compared to the
Dream profile I created, only one came close to it. I was shocked, but,
surprised all the same. Perhaps this profile is all it is, just a Dream and
cannot be real.
Now the task was to find this person, but where? I searched the internet
for many weeks and many sleepless nights, researching all I can to the
journey I was to undertake. I was amazed at all the sites and even the
costs to contact such ladies of Russia, and it's former Countries. I kept
researching more and more, until I came across the "Russian Brides Cyber
Guide". I spent hours reading all the information to this site and every link,
and was now convinced that this search is possible. This site is the most
valued tool and information any man can arm himself with, to ensure his
search is a success. Without this, I can say that my search would have
been so much more difficult to take than it has been. Now, if any man ever
thinks that this journey is an easy one. He is only kidding himself. I
was not aware as to the true difficulties that this search to find "true love
and happiness" would be as difficult as I have found out. To be honest it
would have to be the biggest challenge ever in my life that I have experienced. For, I am a man not to give up on something that I truly
believe in and I am very optimistic that I will find my Soulmate this way.
I want to say that I have experienced the most wonderful history lesson of
a lifetime. To learn about Russia and Ukraine and all it's places, traditions
and cultures was so fascinating to me. It opened up a whole new world to
me to learn about places that were hidden from us all for so long. To be
honest, I know more about these Countries, the Cities and Towns than I
perhaps do in my own country, Australia. Not only have I had the history
lesson to dream of, but, I have had the pleasure to correspond to so many
wonderful and lovely ladies. I have found that it has been such a wonderful
experience to learn a small part of each and every person that I have had
the chance to correspond with, to get know them more. As I have found,
not everyone is suited to each other. Many women I wrote to never replied. Others on the
other hand did, and it was these women that I had to see if they matched my "dream
profile". It is so true what is said, never only look at a Photo and think "this is the one". I never have. I am looking
for someone to have that inner beauty we all look for in someone. Someone to be able to share my life, love, devotion, heart and
soul with and see if we share the same beat of our hearts. To walk that road of "true
love and happiness" together and forever. Can this person be found in this
world? I say "yes, she can ".
Over the many months I have been searching, I came to a point where I
nearly gave up all hope to find this person that matched that "dream
profile" I created. There does come a time where you think, is all this "real"
. Is all this really happening. There comes a time where the pressure can
be so great to decide who is who and who is more real, and who is more
suited. At first you only have letters and photos with the
correspondence to know someone more. And It is true that after about 5 to 10 letters you
know who is more sincere and who is more real. I have found that the
ones that vow their Love for me so early in the correspondence are the
ones that are not so genuine. When I started all this it was so overwhelming to have so many replies and trying to keep up with them all
became an effort, that took up all my nights and weekends at the beginning. Over time the numbers become less and less. The women
disappear, or, you may decide that you do not have much in common. But, it is the women that you do have much in common with that you have
to really decide who is more suitable. This is what I have discovered and
there does come a time that the question will arise that they want to meet
you. And they will ask. And I tell you they all did. I have found this with
many women and I also found that when I told them it is possible, some of
the Ladies disappeared. I thought this was strange. But, I continued to
correspond to the only women that I had remaining and that was only 3.
One from Donetsk, one from Lugansk in Ukraine and one from Barnaul in
All three women are their own person and are so different from each
other. But, in some way they all have the qualities that I am looking for in
someone I search for. Can one of these women be my "dream profile"?
I think one of them is that special person I search for. Already we have
exchanged many letters, photos, our dreams, hopes, lives to each other.
And it has been such a great experience for me so far. There comes a time
where the question "I want to hear her voice" came to me. So when I asked the 2 women from Ukraine this, they both agreed. It was such an
exciting and happy moment for our correspondence and it seemed to make all this more real and take away that Cyber World for a short time
as we spoke to enjoy each other's voices. The lady from Barnaul beat me
to this question and it was she that wanted to talk to me. I was happy to
phone her, to hear her voice, finally. It was also a wonderful and happy
moment in my life. So, the moment came that all three were all equal in
some aspect to who I was looking for. All three I had spoken to over the
phone. And all three I had posted a nice card to. So far, no one has
received the card I sent. Perhaps it has not arrived as yet, perhaps it has
been lost in the postal service that I hear so much about. But, I cannot let
such a thing as a lost card deter me, or, worry me that these ladies are not
Now, when I began my search I only wanted to eventually correspond to
and visit one lady only. I am not a man to give false hope to anyone and
waste their time. I read on the internet where it tells men to write and visit
a few ladies to help decide who is more suitable. As to only visit one,
would be a waste of a trip, a visit. It may be so, but, I have belief in all
this, and this is why I only wanted to visit and arrange a meeting with one
What I have noticed in this method of
correspondence is that you do in fact have strong feelings for who you are corresponding
with. I am not sure if anyone can fall in love through only letters, photos and phone calls.
But, I am certain that you can share strong feelings and much affection
with someone this way. I believe Love can only be decided with a personal
meeting to see if the same is felt in reality as was felt during all that
correspondence. Because to me, Love is a very precious and sacred thing
and so is a person's heart. That is why they both need to be treasured. I
believe that there are 2 parts to a person that cannot lie. And that is the
heart and the eyes. For the heart is true to how it feels and the eyes are the
windows to a person's heart. It will be this that will determine if the person
I decide to meet is this "dream profile" I have created in my mind. Words
do not even have to be spoken, as I will listen to what my heart will tell
So my advice to all these men who I hope will read my story, my
experiences of my search, is to follow your heart and listen to what it tells
you. It will eventually lead you to the person that you have been searching
for all your life. I believe this, and I believe that soon I will know where my
heart will truly be.
As the correspondence continued it was nice to know that one of my
cards had in fact reached it's destination. And that destination was to
Barnaul in Russia. I was very happy to hear this and everything from
that moment seemed to flow. The correspondence to the 2 Ladies from the
Ukraine just vanished. I never heard from them ever again. I did write to
them both, one last time, to thank them for the wonderful
correspondence, to know them as a person and to have the chance to hear their voice over
It was this moment that I was left with this wonderful person from Barnaul
in Russia that seemed to brighten my days so much already. As we continued to
get to know each other more through our letters, our phone conversations, we once again came to the same conclusion that we really
needed a personal meeting. I want to share with you all, that we have
agreed to have our meeting in late April of 2003. Although we still have to
discuss and arrange the finer details to this meeting, when the time gets
closer. It is something that we both are looking so forward to in our days
apart. At the moment I am learning as much as I can of the Russian Language and I must say, I am having so much fun. I now have
an exciting time to arrange all I will need, before I leave on this very important trip to
Russia, to Barnaul. To meet with this wonderful and beautiful person, who
has opened and warmed my heart so much. And given me so much hope, that she is the one I have been looking for all my life. Not only will I have
the chance to meet with her, but also, her adorable daughter and her
The sad thing is, that my experiences and my story I share
with you all now, is only a part of it. For I will not be able to tell you what the outcome
will be of our meeting. I can only imagine and hope, that everyone who
reads this will share in my optimism, and my happiness when I actually do
meet this person in reality. For it will be the very first time that I have been
abroad. And who would have thought that my first time abroad would be
like this. Can you all imagine how I will feel when I arrive in Moscow, to
be greeted by her and see her, talk to her for the very first time in reality.
So, as exciting as it will be. As nervous as I will seem. It will be the trip,
the visit of a lifetime for me. And wish me all the best, that the result is a
good one and I will return home to Australia the happiest man in the world
to begin the process to hopefully marry this person and share our lives
together, forever, and as a family, as I would have found the "true love and
happiness" I was searching for. And the only way to find this, is to find my
other half, my Soulmate.
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