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By Kathryn Lord
"I'd like to find a partner who dances. Do you?" my profile on
Match.com asked. My now-husband Drew emailed that he was willing to
take lessons, and that was enough for me. Non-dancer Drew's courage
to put himself out on the dance floor and to show in lesson after
lesson his amateur status was truly impressive. We took private dance
instruction for a year before our wedding, and as a result, got around the dance floor quite gracefully at our reception.
Women are dying to dance. Any man who can ask a woman to dance, then
take charge of what happens on the floor and move relatively smoothly
to music, has enormous appeal. Fat or skinny, short, tall, or not
even close to attractive, even old, old, old, a man who is comfortable on the dance floor has his pick of the ladies.
For whatever the reason, dancing intoxicates. Especially women. Few men can really dance, and those guys are on the floor constantly.
Some men think they can dance and do get up, ask the ladies, and have
fun. But at least half the men sit or stand uncomfortably on the
sidelines with all the women who wish to be on the dance floor.
We women don't get to dance nearly as much as we'd like to, even the
ladies who are good dancers. There aren't enough dancing men to go
around. You can almost feel the yearning, the sadness, and the disappointment in those women and between those non-dancing couples.
And the non-dancing guys? Pathetic.
I personally know three women close to my age who met their now -
spouses on the dance floor, and those ladies were great catches!
Gentlemen and ladies, there's a message here.
Guys:
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Take lessons and learn how to dance. Leading well takes skill, but
if Drew could learn how, so can you.
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Go to dances.
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Ask women to dance. Lots of women. They'll love it. Even if you
aren't so good, they'll appreciate your efforts.
Dance lessons themselves are good places to meet women, and most
dance studios have regular parties for their students to practice what they have learned.
Ladies:
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Take dancing lessons yourself and learn how to follow. Here I was,
50 years old, thinking I loved to dance, and I had no idea how to do
the woman's part! Following takes skill! You have to figure out what
your partner has in mind for you to do in a split second, and then
actually do it, all while dancing backwards.
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Buy yourself some real ballroom dancing shoes, maybe with high
heels. Believe it or not, those shoes are comfortable. They have to
be. Not only do they look very sexy, they stay on your feet!
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Hang out at dances, too, if you like to dance. Single guys go to
dances.
If you are connected to a dance studio, other single women will be at
their parties as well as the studio instructors and male students, so
you will know people. Dance parties are safe and comfortable for single women.
Guys -- nothing enhances as man's romantic marketability more than
becoming a decent dancer. Learning to dance is cost efficient and
relatively painless. No surgery or blood loss, no sweaty hours at the
gym, no personality makeovers needed. Just dance lessons.
What's stopping you? Look up the dance studio nearest you and make
that call! You'll become a dancing babe magnet!
ABOUT THE
AUTHOR:
Kathryn
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