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Elena, For over three years I have contemplated finding a Russian or Ukranian woman who I might fall in love with and marry one day. My grandparents families came from Belarus, Ukraine and Russia and I have always felt drawn to this heritage. I have also felt extremely disappointed with American "liberated" women who inevitably turn out to be less appreciative of a man who is as honest, emotionally expressive and compassionate as I happen to be... Though I was married for seven years, sadly it was doomed to fail for many of these reasons and more. So I have explored many "Russian" dating web sites, mail order bride web sites, and agency match sites. I have spoken with someone who met a Russian woman through a touring service and now lives very happily in their marriage. Until today, it all seemed both exciting and overwhelming. Fears of scams, ego based hopes that someone 20 years younger would actually want to spend her eternity with me, and all sorts of other things have run through my head again and again. When I found your web site, and took the time to read what you have here, I felt I have finally found real information that will now allow me to pursue my dream! Already I have a much more realistic understanding of the true process involved, the psychological reasons a Russian woman would choose this path, and the issues that we would face in walking through this process. I look forward to thoroughly reading your entire web site, ordering your book, and only then begin the process to find a woman who would share my life with me, two hearts, two minds and two souls joined together in a common commitment of love and caring! THANK YOU for creating this web site, for keeping it up to date, and for your very clear and concise way of uncovering the truth about it all! God
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Russian Brides And Their Culture:
How To Survive Cultural Differences
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How To Fight Cultural Differences In Marriage And Stay
Happy By Marina Smiley When people plan to marry, they expect to find in their partner not only a lover but a friend also. A person with whom they can share their opinions, their emotions, thoughts and fears. In marriage we are looking for a partner who will be able to understand our values, our likes and dislikes. If a man and a woman are born and raised in the same country,
most likely they are familiar with the same songs, movies, jokes, books and life in general. They basically have the same roots. On one hand each of the partners has an opportunity to learn a
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