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What people say about Russian Brides Cyber Guide By chance, I found your site as I was surfing the internet. I realize it is a business opportunity, but your desires to portray the Russian woman as jewel in the world is commendable and much appreciated. Thank you for your honesty and concern for both the Russian women and those who are honestly seeking a partner in life. Loneliness is a very cruel punishment. I am delighted to know of your happiness in your marriage. If I may comment on an issue that came across as I read the reports of victims of scammers. It appeared to me that those victims should be very suspicious if a woman much younger than he shows interest in him. Also, one must be a realist and prudent about finding a mate. A man in his 40's should look for someone not younger than 33 or more.( I read of a man in his 60's who was taken by a woman in her early 30's.) I know also that in the USA ( my country), there is a social tendency for a man to want a younger woman. I find this tendency dangerous from the point that in most cases, such reunions become another divorce statistic. The reasons why I chose a Russian lady to fulfill my life are too numerous, but suffice it to say that I find Russian women educated, chic in their appearance ( no matter what their financial conditions - I saw a beautifully dressed woman operating a train between the center of town and the suburbs ) and want a husband to be her companion- to share whatever life gives them. As for me, I am waiting for her arrival this month, after 9 long months of waiting. She is 45 years old, a most interesting, genuine, warm lady I have ever met. I look forward to a wonderful life- not empty of problems, but with a solid base of understanding, communication, trust and genuine affection for each other, I am sure we will meet life's challenges. Again, thank you for your concerns, both for the Russian woman and for us who are looking for someone to fulfill our loneliness. Rodrigo de Brak (USA) |
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Why do so many US men want a "trophy" wife, with all the risks that entails? Your blacklist site is excellent. Out of interest I went through all the pages today, and one thing strikes me. All the photos of scammers are of beautiful, model type young women, studio posed and professionally done. This alone should ring alarm bells. Having made many trips to Russia, I know in most cities you can sit down at a cafe and watch a selection of probably the most beautiful women in the world. Real women exist in Russia, especially those over 35 and into their 50's who are educated and intelligent and would like to get to know you for who you are, not how much you make. Why do so many US men want a "trophy" wife, with all the risks that entails. The best way is simply to go to Russia and meet them personally. Ron Dear Ron, Regarding just going to Russia and meeting all those beautiful girls in person, a good idea. Not many people can afford to leave their jobs for such a long time though. This is why they use dating agencies to meet women that would be interested in moving abroad, start corresponding with them and then visit them in Russia. I think it is a reasonable approach just as high possibility of success as going to Russia and living there. What will a Russian woman think of foster parentship? Since I do not have contact with any one who knows the Russian women as you do I hope you can answer my question. I am a single male foster parent. I take in children from infants to 12 years old. This is important for me and I love doing it. It is my understanding that no such thing exists in Russia. What will the women I write to think of this and how do I explain it? Elena Petrova: Patrick, How is Medical Aid like in Russia? My girlfriend told me she is in the hospital and will have to stay there for 2 weeks. I am worried if her illness is so serious? Jack Elena Petrova: Dear Jack, There is a list of diseases that should be treated only in hospitals, and pneumonia is one of them. They do not allow people to treat it at home, you must ask a special doctor's permission to be allowed to treat it at home. When you are sick, a doctor issues to you an official document - "Sick List" - which should be presented at work and without this document your absence will be treated as without a reason, and you can be fired (even if you are off for 1 day). So the doctor says you have to go to hospital or you will not receive the "Sick List". Students also have to present "Sick List" if they missed some tests, otherwise they will not be allowed to take them again soon - only later, with the students who failed, and also they will be treated as students who failed (there is still some scholarship paid to successful students, students who fail exams do not receive scholarship). Medical aid in Russia is a very formalized structure with many rules, coming from Communist times. Medical aid in Russia is free, insured by the government. It makes me very sad to see these women compromising their potential. Correspondence 1 I was doing research for a college project on my Russian heritage when I stumbled on to this site. I did not know about "mail order brides" and I spent some time reading your FAQ about the situation. I am very surprised that these beautiful women need to be selected out of magazine! I come from Los Angeles CA, and this seems very depressing. Marriage is so transient these days, it makes me very sad to see these women compromising their potential, but I hope to understand the reasons why. My Grandma is a Russian Jew and fled Russia many years ago. I would like to come to Russia and save all these women, I know that is not possible... but I would like to meet Russian women in Russia or America. Maybe I can help, I would like to. Thanks for reading this. Michael Elena Petrova: Dear Michael, Compromise, it is when people have to
settle for less than they can get. Russian women seeking husbands
abroad are doing that because they do not want to compromise on the
quality of family life, and realized they can do better with looking
for a husband abroad than in Russia. If one cannot
find a marriage partner where she/he lives, what's wrong with meeting
through an ad? Much less mind games, at least.
Correspondence 2 I never thought about it like that. I guess I saw it with jaded eyes. Why would such beautiful women need to advertise themselves, I did not mean it as a put down in any way, much the opposite. Like you said when one area doesn't have a resource another area must export the resource to fill that void. That is true... what I meant about compromise was, America has much to be thankful for, it is worth any voyage for love, or not love, for the freedom. I think that this may instill some quasi notion that there is an equality difference. I am in no way criticizing your work, or your method, or your web site, or the brave women. I was just interested, you taught me a new way of looking at it. If they are looking for security, which it seems obvious that they are, would it not be wise to request bank statements etc. Just old age, is not enough to provide security, nowadays it is easy for a young adult to make more money than 40+ year old man or woman. There should be a deposit of 20,000$ into an account to prove financial security. What happens if a Russian girl gets married to some kinky old man who is about to keel over, that situation would be insecure at the least. Or some crazy killer. What was your experience like originally? Were you frightened? Michael Elena Petrova: Dear Michael, What is the Russian Women's outlook on oral sex? Please forgive my rather forward question but I had been interested in looking into this whole Russian Bride culture after seeing an amazing documentary of the subject on the Discovery Channel here in Florida. But an acquaintance of mine said that it would be a big mistake because of the various cultural differences. One of the biggest was the Russian Women's outlook on oral sex. My friend said they consider it taboo and an act that would only be performed by a prostitute. I asked him if he was sure that it was a cultural issue and not a personal issue with this particular woman, I mean, not EVERY woman here in the United States enjoys it but it certainly isn't a cultural taboo. Could you please inform me if this is a fact or an urban myth. This young lady was from St. Petersburg and after reading your web page I would have thought women from St. Petersburg and Moscow were much more cosmopolitan. Thank you for your time and I apologize if my question has embarrassed you in any way. Regards Reg. By the way...you have a wonderful website. Elena Petrova: Dear Reginald What are the specific expectations of roles and behaviors from each side of American man and Russian woman in order to succeed in their relationship? Your website advice says that if the American man and Russian woman stay with the expected roles and behaviors that each has of the other, the relationship should be successful. Can you give me a specific set of these expectations from each side? I cannot find them on the website. I think I can guess some of them but would prefer to have a more firm list. (I am 58 years old in case the expectations are different for someone my age.) Thank you for your time. Bob. Elena Petrova: Dear Bob The problem with compatibility of life, hobbies, reaction pattern... The problem with compatibility of life, hobbies, reaction pattern etc. Is that really very few are totally "brothers and sisters of one mind". Take myself for an example. Finding a this one - a good-looking and even-tempered lady interested in history, not hysterical about last fashion, adaptable to a city of 60,000, not addicted to high culture, and I could continue for ever - would be an exercise in futility. It is better that I for my part, as well as she on her own part surely will, make my way of life as clear to her as I can from the very beginning. Both parts will study the mailings very carefully and find out whether this guy is the one for me, if he is then as in my case invite him over to me to see if hearts catch fire. Both parts will in the end adapt, everyday life will in the end be a reasonable compromise between the two. In my case - take an interest in high culture, obey every slightest hint on personal, food and house hygiene, connect her with the Russian environment in the town (many), be supportive in every way I can concerning adaptation to local culture and nature. In her case (I hope) - accepting a nature and culture as it is without too much whining, accept that though I may sometimes be a bore I am at least working on the case always trying my best to become a good life mate for her. Elena Petrova: Dear Asgaut Is belief in astrology common among Russian and Ukrainian women? I am interested in Russian and Ukrainian women, but notice that many of them seem to be preoccupied with astrology, even to the point of specifying that men who contact them should be born under a specific sign of the Zodiac. Is belief in astrology common among these women? Elena Petrova: Dear Steve Do women really care if the man is out of their preference on age? In your comments you say to respect the
woman's preference on age. If Elena Petrova: Dear Don A few years difference with what
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