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Family first and all else is a gift...
A true-life story from George

Hello Elena!

I am very impressed by what you have compiled. I have a few thoughts about this. First, I would like to add that seeking the photo is the first assumption that you see and second the profile is a short make-up of what the lady seeks and a brief history of her life.

After meeting many ladies in my search I found that meeting the lady does give you some outlook on her life in "general". BUT, most important is what you see during your brief interview with her at first. I interviewed many ladies at first and found some very interesting but, my first trip was a disaster. My second trip, I began to understand what I was trying to accomplish and thus, I began to know the people and this was the first step in a long and very wonderful adventure. I feel that when searching for a bride the man must first understand the cultural aspects, i.e., Respect of the country, the people, life styles, habits, family values and so much more. When meeting the lady you must ask," is her life style common or advanced, by this I am saying does she live a life of wealth and expectations. I met many ladies who had little but so much. It is very important to view the lady from the outside first. Example, eye contact, body language, movement while sitting, while eating and her attempt to communicate with you.

Money is the first distraction for these ladies, so many men want to prove that they have so much but, in reality these ladies have so much more. The odds are overwhelming to say the least. All ladies I meet were good , I really did not meet any that were to say, "Gold diggers" Of course I did not seek the bar life, nor the expensive areas of Ukraine while looking. I made it plain that I was seeking a good lady and did not stray from this. One very important issue was the sex issue. Well, man as a whole seek the body, issue or not, is plain as the days of the cave man. Pride is the answer to all of these problems. Actually the ladies I meet so stated, 'Family first then all else is a gift. As so was the adventure.' I am married today and yes, I have the complication of the international marriage but, I have a woman that places family first and she is wonderful.

Elena, I am hoping that you would write a short story about what man should do and not do, about what he should first try to learn and about what he should really expect while he is looking. How to view a profile not seeking the body issue. I agree that all man want to have a lady with great legs, great breasts and long beautiful hair, BUT, what about the lady, What about her soul and her heart. I read Alexander Bloc and was amazed at his works, These are the books that helped me to understand Russia, Ukraine life style so much. I have friends that fought in the war against Germans, Russia and I meet their wives and children. You know Elena that these are lovely people, people that for so many years have been held under aggression and that lack of individual thinking, you know that I meet a very old lady in Russia that held my chin and looked at my eyes and said, "Be careful you have a tender heart", WOW, she was right and many ladies seen this as well. I meet so many people I cannot venture to tell you about this because it is such a long story. I can honestly say, "American people are good but, the soul is within these ladies". MY favorite place today is Crimea, I have relatives in the famous charge but the area is fantastic. Omsk, was wonderful the people were fantastic always trying to help me whenever I was lost or uncomfortable. Lustk ,Ukraine was lovely, I meet many ladies there I actually feel in love for the first time in my life. She did not want to come home with me, she wanted me to stay there, I could not, this was reality and pain.

I meet one lady and to this day , I think about her, She had two lovely daughters and in my interview she said, "Take me , I will love you forever and this is for my girls".. I still have tears Elena, and I have now as well. She was not beautiful nor was she perfect but she was clean, tender and very heart felt. I meet her mother, her Dad, and her friends. When I left her, I gave to her some money for food because her apartment was raggy, her children had little but so much attention was given to cleanliness I was taken by her hard work in her home. Today, she is still in Ukraine with her children and has a small job, her mother helps and she is still looking for her man. I made a mistake here, She loved fishing, mountains, hiking, picnics, camping, walking and being in a calm fashion around me. She never asked for money nor to have sex with me, she just wanted a honest man and a good family to love her. You see, Elena if a man wants a love for life this is the women he should seek.

I did meet many ladies very sexy, very wanting, and yes, I loved some as well, but, after we spent time we decided that what we were doing was wanting something that we could not have, it was just a date and respected very much so. All in all, I wanted to respond and thank you for your "9 simple rules" and with hopes many more men will try to seek the soul, the heart and more important what she means to you as a lady.

Thusly, I conclude respect, honor and to cherish each day you have in Ukraine, Russia, learn to understand the difference between calm, family, love and the gift of passion.

Kindly,
George

Cities visited Ukraine: Kiev, Poltave, Simferopol, Sevastopol, Mariupol, Kersk, Yapatoria, yalty, Ilusta, Belaclava, Chernatisi, so many I cannot remember how to spell. Russia, Chetnezy, Georgia, Omsk, Murmansk, Severnisk, norvisiski ( I think this is how you spell it .. there is more. 11 trips and two months each trip, I just love it there. Thanks so very much!!!!!!)

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